Sermons in the Final Thoughts Series

Well, good morning, everyone. My name is Nate. I get to be one of the pastors here. Thank you so much for making grace a part of your Easter celebration. I just want to mention real quick to just some of you. Not everyone will have noticed this, but some of you did, and I feel like it needs to be addressed. In that last song, there's a line that says, all that I have is a hallelujah. And if you, being grammatically correct, change it to an alleluia while you were singing, then you're fine. Okay, that's okay. And God's still honored with your correct grammar. We have been moving through a series called Final Thoughts. And I know on Easter that we have friends and guests and family members who have not been a part of the previous weeks. So to give you just a little bit of context for where we are and what we're talking about as we reach the ultimate sermon in this series. In John, in the Gospel of John, chapters 13 through 17, Jesus is with the disciples in the upper room the night that he's arrested. So Jesus is about to be arrested and then tried and then crucified. And then three days later, we find the empty tomb and he's conquered sin and death. But right before that happens, he's celebrating Passover with the disciples. And after Judas leaves to betray him, Jesus gets serious and he starts talking to the disciples and what's known as the upper room discourse. And it's all of his final thoughts to download to them before he goes and he does what he needs to do. So these are hugely impactful words that we find in John 13 through 17. And we've spent seven or eight weeks in those words. This week, we arrive at a text that I'm going to read here in a little bit that talks about Jesus is going to die and they're going to grieve, but he's going to turn that sorrow, that grief into joy. And so as I was reflecting on this passage, it was required that I would reflect upon grief. And so what I wanted to do this morning, just to celebrate Easter, the most joyful day of the year, is to invite you to think about the time of your deepest grief in your whole life. But really, I do want you to go there. And I know it doesn't make a whole lot of sense on Easter, but it will. Each one of us, if we're old enough, have experienced something in life that brought us tremendous grief. Each one of us has walked the path of sorrow. If we haven't, we will. No one dodges the raindrops of suffering their whole life. And as I was reflecting on grief that I've experienced personally, that I've experienced through others, this occurred to me that grief doesn't just mourn what you lost, but also what you thought you would have. There's this two-pronged element to grief. I don't know what it is, where your mind went when I said, when's the time in your life of great grief? Very rarely does that grief only grieve and experience pain over what was lost. Very often that grief is also mourning over what we thought we would have. I remember the first time in my life when I experienced profound grief was when Jen and I miscarried our first child. We had struggled a lot to become pregnant. And when we finally did, we were overjoyed. And then we found out about eight weeks in that we weren't pregnant anymore. And that grief hit us like a wave. That grief hit us like a wave. And as I've reflected on it, obviously I was sad over the life lost, but really I was grieved over the life I thought I was going to have now. Now I get to be a father. Now Jen gets to be a mother. Now we get to be a family. Now we're off and going. This is the next stage in life, one that we've longed for so much. Now we're there. And then we're not. And we're grieving the future that we were anticipating. If you've lost a loved one too early, too soon, and only those that love others get to decide what that is. But if you've lost someone too soon, you don't just grieve who you lost. You grieve the years ahead. You grieve the grandkids that won't know them. You grieve the stages of life when you can't call them. When you sit in the wake of a divorce, a shattered marriage, or a shattered life, you're not only grieving over the marriage that was lost and the covenant that was broken, but you're grieving over the loss of growing old together, of watching grandkids together. You're grieving over the life that you thought you would have. And so, very often in grief, there is a mourning not for only what was lost, but also for what we thought we would have. And this, I think, is the grief that we find in the disciples that Jesus is referring to in this passage. In John chapter 16, verses 19 and 20, Jesus tells the disciples, I'm going to die, and then I'm going to come back from the dead. And the disciples, just like you and I would in that moment, go, what do you think he's talking about? They still didn't understand. And he says, while the world is rejoicing, because the world crucifies Christ, while the world is rejoicing, you will mourn and then I will turn your mourning and your grief into joy. Because you're going to be sad. You're going to be hurt. And this grief of the disciples, what I think of is Saturday. Friday is the last supper. Saturday, they're sitting in the midst of the unknown. Sunday, we find an empty tomb and questions are answered. But on Saturday, the grief that they're experiencing on Saturday is the grief of a future lost. Because what we know about the disciples is that even at the death of Christ, even as Christ hung on the cross, as the crucified Messiah was there, the disciples did not know what he really came to do. The disciples still thought that Jesus came to be an earthly king on an earthly throne, ruling an earthly kingdom. They still believed that Jesus was going to rise to the throne of David, take over Israel, and then Israel would be his international superpower, and Jesus would be the king of kings from the throne of David. And we know this because on their way into Jerusalem, the Sunday before Easter on Palm Sunday, they're following Jesus, arguing about who gets to be what in this new kingdom. I get to be the vice president and I get to be the secretary of defense and you have to be the secretary of transportation. They were arguing about those things. And so we know that the expectation of the disciples was for Jesus to establish this perfect earthly kingdom and be an earthly king. And when this man is hanging on the cross and he breathes his last, so is the last breath of that dream breathed. So is their future dead. They don't know now what the point of everything was. They think it's over and it's lost and it's done. And on Saturday, they sit quietly in a room together trying to figure out what just happened. Because on Friday, they scattered, scared that they would be associated with Jesus and then tried like him. And so the sheep scattered. On Saturday, they get back together and they go, what did we just do? What did we just lose? And they're sitting in this grief over a future that they thought Jesus was going to bring about. They thought by hitching their wagons to this guy that this is our future. This is our life. We will be men of prominence. This is going in this direction. And when it stopped going in that direction, they were miffed and mystified. They were grieving the loss of a future that they presumed Jesus would bring about for them. And in this way, I believe that we can relate to the disciples. I believe that we can very much sit in the grief that they were sitting in. All of us, I believe, have grieved a presumed future with Jesus. All of us have grieved over the loss of a future we thought we would have with Christ. We know this. And I believe that many of us in different ways and in different times have grieved a future, the loss of a future that we thought Jesus was going to bring about. We gathered around someone we loved. We gathered around someone we cared about who got cancer too early or got a disease too soon or had an accident and we were praying for their recovery. We've gathered around. We've gathered two or more in Jesus' name and we've asked in Jesus' name for them to be healed. And he could have, but he didn't. And maybe we thought that Jesus was going to let this person be in our life longer than he did. And then he did it, so we grieved the loss of that future. And we grieved the loss of the future that we thought Jesus was going to bring about. We prayed for a child for years. We got pregnant. We lost that child. Now Jesus has let us down because we thought he was going to bless our future and bring about that future for us. And he didn't then. He did later. Some of us have become Christians. believing because of maybe poor teaching, maybe being overly presumptuous, that when we get saved, our life gets better. When I give my life to Christ, he protects me. And now there's this umbrella, this force field around my life that prevents me from pain, that prevents me from hardship. And we found out subsequent to our salvation that that's not how that works. And the future that we thought that we were bringing about by inviting Jesus into our life isn't what happened. And so now we're grieving the disappointment that we have at Jesus not doing what we thought he was going to do. Maybe when we were young children, we were handed a simple faith by the leaders around us and by our parents. And then as we grew up and we began to experience complicated life, we realized that this simple faith was not adequate for the life that we were experiencing. And that tension became so great that eventually we made the difficult decision to step away from faith, to deprioritize it in our life. Because we were told when we were little that Jesus was going to bring about a certain kind of future that he didn't bring about. And so now we're grieving the loss of that future, and we're grieving stepping away from who we grew up and how we grew up and what we were taught, and that hurts, and that's a painful thing. And it's painful to know that in making that choice, you're also hurting the people who taught you that faith. And so now there's communal grief over this future that we thought Jesus was going to bring about. And he didn't. Maybe we are parents and we did everything we could to train up a child in the way that they must go. And then we watched them depart from it. And Jesus did not bring about the future that we thought he would. So we grieve the loss of that future. There are more examples. We could go on. But I would contend that a vast majority of us in this room have grieved as the disciples grieved over a loss of a presumed future we thought Jesus had for us. Because we can relate so deeply to the disciples and their Saturday grief, it should interest us a great deal. How Jesus manages to turn that grief into joy. That sorrow into laughter. And here's how I think that grief got transformed to joy. I think that our grief turns to joy when we discover what Jesus was really up to. Our grief turns to joy when we discover what Jesus has really been trying to do. The verse that Aaron shared in worship, when they saw Jesus, they were, they sprung to joy so great. They stood up, they were in disbelief. It was a joy that brought about disbelief. This is so amazing. This is so fantastic. I can't believe it's happening. I'm going to stand up, arms raised, mouth agape. I can't believe this is going on. That kind of joy. How does Jesus turn that deep grief of a lost future into a joy that is speechless? By showing you what he's really been up to. And what he was showing the disciples in that moment and what they began to progressively understand over the next 40 days leading into Pentecost is that Jesus did not come to establish an earthly kingdom here. He came to establish an eternal kingdom there. He did not come to make this place perfect. He came to craft a perfect eternity for you forever and for the disciples forever. And what he was showing the disciples is, guys, what I have imagined and what I came to do is so much bigger and grander and more marvelous and more wonderful and more miraculous than anything you've imagined. I did not come to sit on an earthly throne and be an earthly kingdom that is beneath me. I came to establish an eternal throne and an eternal kingdom and to make a way for you to be there with me. That's why Jesus tells the disciples in the upper room discourse, I'm going to my father's house and I'm going to go prepare a place for you. And I'm the way to that place. And Easter makes Jesus the way to that place. And I just happen to think, to be naive enough to cling to this idea, that Jesus will also turn our grief into joy. And he will do it when we see what he's really been up to. What he's really been doing behind the scenes, what he's really been working on, how much bigger and more grand and more miraculous his imagination for us is than what ours is. Some of us have the opportunity to see this in this temporal place, in this world. We've seen the child grow up in the way that they're supposed to go and then wander away from the faith. And it hurts us, and we watch them, and they make mistakes, and they run into walls, and they trip over themselves, and we want to stop them, but we can't. And we just pray that they would come back, and then one day they get married, or they have a kid, or some life event happens, or something stark in their life goes on, and they come back to a faith. And when they come back to the faith, they do it with this vibrancy and this ownership that would have never taken place had they not had those years in the wilderness. And now, with a decade of hindsight, we see those necessary wanderings that solidified the faith of our children. We can think back, many of us, to moments of grief in our life when we shook our fists at God. and we said, this isn't fair. How could you let this happen? And a decade hence, with hindsight, we know exactly why it happened. We know exactly why it was fair. And we see exactly how God was working in ways that we couldn't fathom. And that's just here in this world. Because if you want to know what Jesus has really been up to, if you want to know what he's really doing, we find that in Revelation. I love this passage. I preach it at every funeral I do because it is the most hope-filled passage I can find in the Bible. This is what Jesus has really been up to in Revelation 21, verses 1 through 4. longer any sea. I saw the holy city, the new Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God, prepared as a bride, beautifully dressed for her husband. And I heard a loud voice from the throne saying, look, God's dwelling place is now among the people. Listen. And he will dwell with them. They will be with his people, and God himself will be with their God, and he will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain for the old order of things has passed away. That's what Jesus has been up to. I say if you come not on Easter, I say very often that when Jesus returns, he's going to make all the wrong things right and the sad things untrue. This is how. He did not come to make this earth perfect for us now. He came to make a path to the perfect new earth and new heaven that he's creating. If you want to know what Jesus is up to now, he's preparing a place for us so that one day we will be sitting before the throne of God and we will be with our God and he will be with his people and there will be no more weeping and no more crying and no more pain anymore for the former things. Death and abuse and divorce and grief and loss and illness and sickness and sadness, the former things, will have passed away. And Jesus punched our ticket to that perfect eternity. Do you know how he did it? Easter. He did it with the empty tomb. He did it by overcoming sin and death and shame for you and for me. And so when we celebrate Easter, we call it the most joyful day of the year. Because on Easter, Jesus conquered death so that when we die, it's not goodbye forever, it's goodbye for now. When we pray for healing, that will be answered either in this life or the next when we place our faith in Christ and what he did on the cross and what he proved on Easter. We follow a Jesus that turns our grief into joy. So I don't know where your head went when I asked you what your greatest grief was. I'm confident some of you are walking through it right now. I'm confident all of us have more grief waiting on us in this life. But what I'm certain of is, no matter what that grief was, is, or will be, that Jesus has turned that grief into joy. And when we find out what he has been up to, it will be so much bigger, more miraculous, more wonderful, more awe-inspiring, more mysterious than we could ever imagine. And that's the future that Easter wins for us. So let's go celebrate with our families. Let's smile and laugh and enjoy and eat well. But let's do it knowing that whatever grief we have experienced or will experience will be turned into joy because Jesus died on the cross and conquered death and sin by raising from the grave. And he's gone to prepare a perfect future for us. And when we find out what he has been up to, it will blow us away even more than it shocked and surprised the disciples, and we will stand mouth agape in joyous wonder at what Jesus has been doing. Let's cling to that and continue to celebrate Easter together. Let me pray for you. Father, we're so grateful for Easter and what it is and what it represents. Thank you for covering over our sin and our shame. Thank you for making a path through your son to experience a perfect eternity with you. God, we thank you that your imagination is bigger than ours, that your hope for our future is better than ours, that what you can envision for us and what you want to do for us is so much more than we could ask or even think to imagine. God, if there are those here with us this morning or listening online who are grieving, would you give them belief and hope that you will turn that to joy? God, would we revel in the power of Easter and what it is and what it means? Give us good celebrations with our family. Give us good thoughtful discussions with our friends. And God, help us today celebrate you and all that you've done to bring us into this perfect place that you're preparing. In Jesus' name, amen.

All right. Well, good morning, everybody. My name is Nate. I get to be one of the pastors here. That was, I think, maybe the loudest I've ever heard you guys worship, and I think that is wonderful. What a good morning. And listen, the week after preaching a sermon on politics, I did not expect there to be zero empty seats in the room. I thought maybe we'd thin the herd a little bit, but you guys are back to more, which is why this week I'm gonna tell you who I'm gonna vote for and why you should too. I do have, I do need to say something to my NC State fans, friends. Last week, you know, I started out, I said, mean thing. And Phil, our head usher, he's back there. He's not nice. He came up to me in the lobby and he said, so what was that funny little joke you made last week? I said, I don't remember, Phil. I don't know. It slips my brain. But congratulations, NC State, on your overtime victory over a 14 seed. We'll look forward to next weekend. This is our second part in unity. We are unified in our laughter at NC State. Isn't this wonderful? This is, I'm sorry, I'm done. I'm done, I'm sorry. I'm a Georgia Tech fan, okay? I got nothing. Absolutely nothing. Thank you, Easley. Do I have to preach still? What's happening? All right. So this is part two of the Unity Sermon, and we're pulling this out of John chapter 17 as we've been going this spring through the Upper Room Discourse found in John chapters 13 through 17. They're the final words or final thoughts of Christ to his disciples before he's arrested and tried and buried and rises again on the third day. And we get to come back next week and celebrate Easter. A quick word about the Good Friday service. It's just the second time that we've done it since I've been here. But Aaron and I have worked on how to format it. It looks a little bit different than a normal service. The whole idea of it is to let the weight of the crucifixion and the sacrifice rest on us so that we're spiritually prepared to celebrate on Sunday the greatest holiday of the year. So I hope that you can make it to that. So we looked at the prayer last week, and we acknowledge it's called the high priestly prayer because Jesus is praying over the disciples before he dies and ascends into heaven about 43 days from then. And they're the ones that are left with the keys of the kingdom. They're the first group of pastors and elders to oversee the church. And as he's praying for them, Jesus also prays for us. So I want to remind you of those verses this week found in John chapter 17. We're just going to look at verse 20 and 21 this week. Jesus prays this, my prayer is not for them alone, meaning I'm not praying God just for the disciples. I pray also for those who will believe in me through their message. So that's you and I, that's the church, anybody who believes in the work of Christ. And I made the point last week that unity is Jesus' biggest priority for his church. Last week I said it was his only petition in that prayer for us. But this week, the way to think about it is unity, according to this prayer, is Jesus' biggest priority for his church. And when I say church, I mean Big C Church. I mean all the Christians who have ever lived, no matter our denomination, no matter our background, Big C Church, unity is a huge priority for Jesus. And I questioned last week why it's not a bigger priority for worldwide Christians. And I know it's not a huge priority because we have so many denominations, and we're going to get into that in a little bit. But we take, I take Jesus's petition for unity amongst the believers very, very seriously. And because of that, last week we said, let's look at the biggest threats to that unity. And so last week we acknowledged that in the United States in 2024, the climate is so divisive, it's begun to sneak into the church, that politics, our political leanings and persuasions, can sometimes allow us to separate or judge the faith of other believers, if they don't have the politics that we do, and how that is disunifying. That's not good for the church. The other thing I mentioned last week that would seek to divide us is our beliefs. What we believe about all the things. Because in theology, in Christendom, there's some things that you would consider primary issues. The deity of Christ, the sonship of Jesus, the Trinity, God the Father, God the Son, God the Holy Spirit, the nature of sin, the doctrine of salvation. These things are primary issues. But there's other things that are secondary or even tertiary issues. What do we believe about baptism? What do we believe about communion and what we should do? What's our policy on church discipline? What does it mean to be ordained? What does it mean to be a church member somewhere? All these things are secondary and tertiary issues about which the body of Christ does not agree. And thinking about all of that and Jesus' call for unity, I was able to take a trip in February. In February, well, at the end of last year, I reached out to an old acquaintance of mine. This guy has a pretty unique story. His name is Brad, and Brad is a genius. Not like, that dude's a genius. Like, no, legit genius. And he went to the Air Force Academy and got a master's degree in aerospace engineering. He was literally a rocket scientist. He showed me the title of his thesis, his master's thesis. I understand two words in it. And he grew up with the Southern Baptist, loosely associated with Southern Baptist. And then in college, kind of found his way into the Episcopal Church. And then in the time in his service in Colorado, he joined the church, is what it's called when you become a Catholic. He joined the church. He converted to Catholicism. And in that, he decided to pursue being a priest. So he left the Air Force as a captain, and he went to school at the Vatican, and he went to school for like seven or eight more years and became a priest. And now he's a priest and a pastor in a parish in Birmingham, Alabama. And because of his spiritual journey, because of how thoughtful and well-read and intelligent he is, I wanted to talk to him. Because I just wanted to hear what he thought, and I understand his story and everything that went into it. So I reached out to him after having not spoken with him in at least a decade. And he was very gracious and he welcomed me. And one Friday in February, we sat at his house for nine hours and talked. And it was a good, fruitful conversation. He was an incredibly gracious host. And I was so grateful for his time because he's far more educated than me. But there was a part of the conversation that Brad and I had that really did make me pretty sad. He's, I don't know the title of it, but within his diocese district, he's the representative of the Catholic priests in this effort to unify with and learn from the other denominations. So he sits on a council with a Methodist person, Baptist person, Presbyterian person, Catholic person, and they kind of come together and try to find ways that they can work together as faith and be unified together. And I think that's wonderful. And because I knew that I had this sermon coming up and because I had been thinking about this idea of unity, I asked him specifically about that and what he had learned in his time doing that. And in that conversation, he told me that he was actually pretty excited recently because the Catholic Church was getting very close to achieving unification with the Anglican Church. The Anglican Church is the Catholic church in England that broke off from the Catholics years ago for, you know, reasons that we don't need to get into right now, students of history. And he said that they were very close to achieving unity, but that right before they actually unified, that the Anglicans shifted their views on a couple things, on views of women in ministry and a couple other secondary, tertiary issues. And so they couldn't unify. And I said, well, what does it mean to you to be unified with the Anglican Church? And he said, well, it means that a Catholic priest could give Anglican Mass and that an Anglican priest could give Catholic Mass and celebrate the Eucharist together, take communion together. And I said, well, can't you just not agree on a couple of those secondary issues and still agree in the personal work of Christ and celebrate communion together? And he said, no, it doesn't work like that. I said, why not? And he said, well, because in my understanding, to take communion with someone, implicit in that is that you agree about everything with them. You have shared beliefs in common, and that's part of what makes it so powerful. And I said, well, if you've got two entities that are seeking unity, but they have differing beliefs, then one of those two entities is going to have to leave their beliefs at the door to be able to get under the same umbrella. And he said, yeah, that's right. And I said, well, whose responsibility is that? And he eloquently and thoughtfully said, not ours. That's a more basic version of what he said. He used a lot more words. But he basically said, when people are ready to shift to the way that we think about things, then we'll be unified. And listen, I want to be very careful here. As I said, Brad was a wonderful and gracious host. We talked about a lot of very interesting things, and I learned a ton. And he is one voice in the Catholic Church. I'm very aware that I could talk to myriad other Catholic priests, and the conversation could have gone a bunch of different ways. So I don't think that he speaks for all of Catholicism, but this is what he said in our conversation. And it just made me very sad that that was the standard for unity. And so I said, well, could you take communion in my church? If you happen to be visiting on a weekend and you came on a Sunday where we were having communion, could you partake in communion with us? And he said, no, that would be scandalous. Yeah, that's what I said. Gosh. And I said, okay, why is that? And he said, well, do you guys believe, and there's a doctrine in the Catholic faith and in some other areas of Christianity called transubstantiation. It's the belief that when you partake in communion that the bread and the juice or the wine becomes the literal physical body of Christ in your body. It's something that they hold to. And that's fine. We don't hold to that. And so he said, do you believe in that? And I said, no. And he goes, well, then we couldn't because we don't have all the same shared beliefs. And that would be pretty scandalous of me to do that as a priest. I said, okay. I said, what if the elders and I sat down and we changed all of our beliefs and we got right in line with what Catholicism teaches about communion? Could you then participate with us in that communion? And he said, would that communion be administered to me by a priest who's under the authority of a bishop who's under the authority of the pope? And I said, no, it would just be me, and I'm under the authority of Brad. So that's all you're getting. And he said, no, I could not. I could not do that. And my account was just kind of sunk. And he said, you're quiet. I said, yeah, it just makes me really sad that someone who loves Jesus as much as you do would feel like you're not welcome to take communion at my church. It makes me sad to think that anybody who believes in the work of Christ, that he is who he says he is, that he did what he said he did, that he's going to do what he says he's going to do, it makes me sad that anybody who believes that would feel not welcome or out of place to take communion here with us. And so, reflecting on that conversation, on what that bar is for unity, that we have to believe all the same things, I remembered something that I said offhand in a sermon in January. And that when I said it, I thought, oh, that hasn't come out of my mouth before. Let me think about that some. And it's kind of been rattling around in my brain ever since. And I thought about it on the flight home from Birmingham. It's just this idea. We can never be obedient to the high priestly prayer if we insist on a homogeny of doctrinal thought. We can never be church, never ever be, not in these walls or in the big church. We will never be obedient to Jesus' high priestly prayer of being one as he and the Father are one if we insist on a unanimous belief about all the things on a homogeny of doctrinal thought across every church, on the whole world, on the whole planet that's ever existed, we have to agree on primary, secondary, tertiary ideas. We just, if that's the level, if that's the standard, then we just can't achieve unity. And to help us think about this, I wanted to bring up the whiteboard and do a little exercise with you guys. Plus, it's been a little while since I did the whiteboard, and it's time. It's time to do the whiteboard. Thank you, Harris. Last time we did this, thank you, sir, on a communion Sunday, while I was praying, they carried the whiteboard off the stage, ran it into the TV, and then knocked the wine glass off the table and chattered during the prayer. So we're looking for redemption this time around. It's going to go much, much better. But to help us think about what unity in the church could actually look like, and to think about what I think is the impossible task of bringing everybody under the umbrella in the same agreement about all the things. I want to do this exercise with you. This exercise, actually, believe it or not, the first time this thought occurred to me, what I'm about to share with you, changed my spiritual life because I began to look in more places for beauty, and it breathed wind into my sails, and so I hope that maybe it can do that for some of us this morning. But I want to think of all of Christendom in a pie chart. I know that's a terrible circle. And I know that those of you in the back can't see, but you're going to get the point. That's actually not that terrible a circle. I'm not ashamed of that at all. That's pretty good. And so this is all of Christendom. This is all the Christians currently alive. If we think about how they divide up into what denominations, let's say that this is roughly Catholic. That's a big chunk. We know that's a big chunk worldwide Catholic. There's a lot of them. Then let's make a sliver for Anglican. Then let's make a sliver for Orthodoxy. Then let's make a sliver for Orthodoxy. And then let's make a sliver for kind of Desert Fathers Asian Orthodoxy. So we're going to, that's what those are. Okay, and then that leaves us a lot of space for the Protestants. Okay, this big, big Protestant. And this is only,, it actually should be more like this. I did actually research this, but then I thought I'm not going to refer back to a paper and try to draw a perfect pie chart. I think you guys can get the gist of it. So then you've got the Protestant faith, but within the Protestant faith, so let's say you've got Baptists, okay? That's one. And within the Protestant faith in America, that's the biggest chunk. But then you've also got Presbyterians, okay? You've got Methodists, you've got Lutherans, and then you've got like Church of Christ, you've got Pentecostals, Holiness Movement, and then you start to really like subdivide, non-denominational, inter-denominational, all the smaller percentages, whatever we're missing. So this is what worldwide Christendom looks like. But we're not done there because each of these slivers has their own sliver. It's important that you see this faith and get it exactly right. She's like leaning past me, I'm sorry. So even within Catholicism, and I don't know them all, but there's like, you know, the Jesuits and then there's the Franciscans and then there's other orders of monks and things like that where the beliefs are just a little bit different in there. And then each of these slivers, like the Presbyterian sliver, PCUSA, there's been a divide in the Methodist sliver. There's been a divide, like they kind of break off and do the different things. And for my background, where I grew up, you have Southern Baptist is one sliver, but then you've got Independent Baptist, Primitive Baptist, American Baptist, and on and on with the Baptists. That's just inside the Baptists. So there's really a lot of slivers. Then here's what occurred to me. This, in the whole pie chart of Christendom, this red right here, that's my sliver. That's where I grew up. Each of us was born into or saved into a sliver. Each of us was born into or saved into a piece of this pie. And here's what happens when you're inside your piece of the pie. Okay? Now, if you can't relate to this, you did not grow up in church. This is my piece of the pie. And when I was growing up, when I was in school, when I was in seminary, we thought this sliver right here, gosh, I'm so lucky we have cornered the market on right. We're so good. We've nailed all the theology. Isn't that good for us? Listen, I would have never, when I was 20 years old, I would have never dreamed of taking over a church with a Presbyterian background unless it was to reform each and every one of you. Which my plan is slowly working. We thought people outside, like other Protestants, like in this area, they're probably okay. They're probably Christians. I can remember having conversations in church circles. Hey man, do you think Catholics are really Christians? And do you know what the answer was? A dead serious. You know, I think some of them probably do have a genuine faith. I think some of them probably can be Christians. What? You know what I found out that some groups of Catholics call Protestant Christians? Separated brothers and sisters. How generous of you. That's okay. Jews call you God's stepchildren. And so you begin to think that what's inside your sliver is the most right of all the slivers. And everything else outside of that can't be right. They're all wrong about different things. I was doing this one time with somebody and I showed them this and I jokingly said, well, you know, they're too liberal and they're too liberal. They shouldn't even be in the pie chart. And they go, I agree with you. And I was like, ooh, that's not the point of what we're talking about. I grew up thinking all the right answers for all the things, all the beliefs, but all the secondary and tertiary issues existed in my sliver that we had cornered the market on right. And somewhere in 2020, I realized that I had been doing this my whole life. And I realized how ungracious that was. And what I realized is, each one of these slivers, every single one of them, has beauty to offer us, has wisdom to offer us. I don't know which sliver you grew up in or were saved into. And when I say saved into, what I mean is, if you became a Christian later in life and then you started going to church, that particular church begins to inculcate you with their theology and all the history and everything that's gone into it. And you might not know it, but that's a theology that you've now kind of been saved into because that's going to be the background that you get. And about four years ago, I made the decision to start learning from other backgrounds and I found so much beauty there. Last year I had sabbatical in July and one of the things I did is I went to other churches. So I was thinking about change and and I made, I made the decision to go to one church that was way more conservative than I've ever been or would ever be. And I made a decision to go to another church that was way more liberal than I've ever been and than I think I'll ever be. And I went to the conservative church and I had a terrible attitude. I was judging everything. This is stupid. That's dumb. Oh, yeah, shocker, just men ushering. Yeah, I get it. And I'm just kind of going through the checklist in my head, right? And at the end of the service, the band got back up to play, and I saw something really cool. As the church was worshiping together, there was about 500 or 600 people in this room in the middle of July. And I looked around the room, and there was a ton of teenagers. I saw a bunch of three-generation families, grandparents sitting with grandbabies and kids. And I watched these people raise their hand in worship. And I listened to them, and their worship was boisterous and exuberant. And I thought, shame on you, man. Shame on you. This doesn't need to be for you. But it's for them. And it works for them. There's beautiful things here. And these people are getting closer to Jesus as a result of their involvement here. You need to support things like this. And I saw beauty there that day. Then a week or two later, I went to another church down the road, far more liberal than I am. And I expected to go in there and just kind of get some feel-good nonsense, you know, because of liberals. And what I found was a people who had a deep appreciation of God's Word. They honored it. The homily was so good and so thought-provoking that I had lunch with that pastor two or three more times after that because I had questions for him. And I learned some things from them. And we have and can find beauty in all these things. I know I've inadvertently and hopefully not disrespectfully picked on Catholicism a little bit, but I will tell you this. For 1,500 years, they were the watchers on the wall. There is no church without the Catholic Church. They were the ones who watched the things through all the years until the Great Reformation. They are the theological shoulders on which we stand. And even if you've never stepped foot in a Catholic church, we have a great deal sitting here in an interdenominational church in 2024 to be grateful for to our Catholic brothers and sisters. We learn liturgy from the churches of the apostles, from the Presbyterians, and from the Lutherans. We learn high church and sacred spaces from our Presbyterian brothers and sisters. We learn low church and church polity and church governance from our Baptist brothers and sisters. We learn about the spirit from our courageous Pentecostal brothers and sisters. There is beauty to be found in each one of these slivers. Except the church, historically, has done this. Rather than looking for beauty, we often look for battles. Rather than look for beauty, we often look for battles. And we want to tell other Christians why they're not Christians anymore. There's an article that came out this year that a president of a seminary wrote about one of the most famous, helpful pastors in the country. And he said, yep, this was inevitable. So-and-so has shipped off from Christianity. They have lost their faith. Why does he get to declare that? We want to pick these battles. We want to tear down other Christians for not being Christian enough. And I can't help but wonder what that must look like to a watching world when an entire denomination of people has a huge conference to decide whether or not women can be in ministry. And because they decided they can't be in authority in churches, several big churches get kicked out. And now their pastors are on CNN asking why they got kicked out. And the world is watching this. And is it any wonder why people who don't go to church look at church in our culture and go, I don't want anything to do with that. They can't even be nice to themselves. This is why Jesus says, he prays for our unity. Why? So that the world may believe. Because a disunified church looking for battles, looking to pick on things with one another, looking to get into theological arguments and make you believe everything the way I believe it and get under our umbrella or we can't be unified turns off a watching world. Which is why one of the reasons I love grace so much. I was joking around with Aaron Winston, our children's pastor, when I was thinking about this sermon, that grace is like the Statue of Liberty of churches. Give us your tired, your poor, your huddled masses. We'll take all flavors. We have somebody from almost every mainline denomination in this thing. We are very well represented. And one of the things that I learned in taking the job is we are not non-denominational, as if these things don't exist and don't matter. We are intra-denominational. We are people who are determined to remain in unity and in fellowship together despite a lack of unanimous agreement about all the things. And that is to our good that serves us. And this ethic of being a church that does not insist on a homogeny of doctrinal thought predates me. This is what the founding members laid out. This is the statement of faith that I found when I got here. It's actually on our website. I'm going to read you the first two paragraphs of the statement of faith if you'll indulge me a little bit. Now, I've reworded this because it was a little bit clunky and Presbyterian, so I had to make it flow a little bit. But this has been approved by two separate elder boards, and so I know that it is a reflection of who we are. But this is the opening two paragraphs of our statement of faith, and I want you to reflect on it in light of this idea of unity in the church. At Grace Raleigh, there is a great deal about the Christian faith that seems clear to us and foundational to all that we believe. However, there is also much of God's nature, purposes, and plans as revealed in the Bible and borne out in human history and in our lives that retains its mystery and lies beyond our full comprehension on which we don't all agree. This lack of universal agreement is acknowledged and embraced through the makeup of our church family itself. As a church, we have Presbyterian roots. While a senior pastor grew up in a Baptist context, our church body consists of almost every mainline denomination in the country. We believe this diversity strengthens us and makes us more effective as we seek to build God's kingdom on earth. Because of this, this is important, we try to be as generous as possible about where we draw lines and distinctions and allow for a variety of opinions and assertions on a variety of topics and teachings within the Christian faith. We hope to maintain a commitment to the holiness and authority of Scripture while erring on the side of grace as we apply it to our lives. That's our statement of faith. That's your church with those sensibilities. And I'm proud to be a part of a church like that, that holds things open-handedly. You know, with some degree of regularity, I'll get someone to ask me in passing conversation, in a meeting, in an email, hey, what's Grace's stance on blank? Someone asked me recently what our stance was on the rapture. I said, we don't have one of those. We never will. But I get asked that with some degree of regularity. And it's usually the same answer. I don't know what Grace's stance is on that. I don't think Grace has a stance on that. I've not seen anything written. I know what my stance is, maybe, but it's probably different than some of our elders. And I don't think I could speak for the elder board on this issue. And I would say, if it's not in our statement of faith, we do not have an opinion on that. We don't have a stance, a collective body of believers stance on that. And that's on purpose. Why? So that we can remain unified as a church. Because at Grace, we do not insist on a unanimous belief about all things. In fact, here's our goal. Here's what we seek to do. When I think about being a pastor, knowing I want to invest my life in this place for as long as the Lord will allow me to do it, this is what I dream of. And this is what the elders want to build as well. We seek to build a corner of the kingdom unified, not by a unanimous belief in all things, but by unanimous belief in the saving work of Jesus Christ. We understand. And we're not going to try to get everyone in this room and watching online and who will be here on Easter to agree about all the things. But when we take communion at grace, it doesn't mean that we agree on what communion means. It doesn't mean that we agree on how to define baptism. It doesn't mean that we agree on all the secondary and tertiary issues and all the lines that we're supposed to draw. It doesn't mean that. What it means is we have a unanimous belief in the person and work of Jesus Christ, that he is who he says he is, that he did what he said he did, that he's going to do what he says he's going to do. If you believe that, you are welcome to take communion here, and it is a show of unity to do so. And as we move forward as a church and we continue to grow as a church, we've got to maintain this as one of our guiding ethics. That's so important to us, it leads our statement of faith online. So here's what we're going to do. In a few minutes, I'm going to pray. And then Kyle's going to come up and he's going to guide us through communion. As we do that, it is a very intentional show of unity under the banner of Christ. And one of my favorite things to do is to sit right here in this front row on communion Sunday and look at all the people who walk by me and be grateful for you and marvel that you're. And wonder why you choose to listen to me sometimes. I love Communion Sunday because I get to see the body of believers. I get to see my church. And as you guys look at each other to your left and to your right, as you stand in line and you look at the other people who are taking communions and you come and you take it from the elders and you take communion yourself, know that besides you, you have brothers and sisters in Christ. And to have fellowship with you and to love you and to worship with you and to go to church with you, we don't need to believe all the things about all the things. We just need to believe in who Jesus was and what he did. And under the banner of Christ, we're going to bring as many people possible with us as we go see him. That's what we're going to do as a church. So let's let communion this morning be a thing that solidifies our unity and our commitment to one another as people under the banner of Christ who treasure the fact that we come from all these different places and all these different places have beauty to add here. Let's pray. Father, thank you so much for this morning, for the way that you love us, for the way that you care for us. God, we are sorry for the way our churches divide and break and crack. God, I pray that there would not be a spirit at grace that seeks for disunity and division, but that we would champion holding things with an open hand, that we would be a people who would learn from all the shoulders that we stand on, not just a subset of the ones that we encountered first. Lord, we lift up the other churches in Raleigh this morning and around the world who are celebrating Palm Sunday, getting ready to celebrate Easter. We pray that our voices would go up as one next Sunday morning and that heaven would delight in the praise of your people here. Lord, make us stronger as a church. Unify us under the banner of Christ, our love for him and our desire to see other people come to know him. God, we love you and we need you. And we trust you. In Jesus' name, amen.

Well, good morning, Grace. My name is Nate. I get to be one of the pastors here. Thanks for making us a part of your Sunday morning. Before I just launch into the sermon, a couple of things. First off, NC State has been the butt of many of my jokes, so I need to stand up here and take it like a man. Well done, NC State. Good job. We'll look forward to your disappointment in the first weekend of the tournament. And then we've got more, far more importantly, we've got two rows of students over here. They just did a, what, Kyle, what was the weekend called? I don't even know what it's called. Great. That's perfect. That's what we're preaching about this morning. Pay attention, kids. This is for you. That's right. That's right. Because they knew. They're in a preaching schedule. That's great. So they've had a great weekend. God's been doing some cool stuff there, so it's great to see them. This morning, we continue our series. I forget what part we're in, six or seven, of our series called Final Thoughts, where we're looking at the Upper Room Discourse, which is this collection of things that Jesus said from chapter 13 in John all the way through chapter 17. It's the last things he said to the disciples before he was arrested and tried and crucified for me and for you. And so we arrive at the end of it in John chapter 17 with what's famously called the high priestly prayer. And this is a fantastic prayer. It's hugely important and we can't miss the context of it because Jesus is praying over the disciples. Now it's 11 men because Judas has left to betray him. It's these 11 men who are going to be leading the church. They are in charge of making sure that the message of the gospel goes into Jerusalem, Judea, and Samaria and to the ends of the earth, to the corners of the globe. These men are in part the reason why we sit here on a separate continent 2,000 years later. And so Jesus has been training them for three years. And here's the catch. They still don't even yet know what their job's going to be. They still think, and I don't have time to get into all the context of it, but they still believe that in a little bit, Jesus is going to ascend to the throne and they're going to be the vice president and the Secretary of State and the Secretary of War and agriculture and all the rest they think they're going to be important in this Israeli government that Jesus is going to set up they still don't understand what he really came to do and one of the things he came to do is to train them to lead the church so right before he dies and initiates that process, he prays over them to God. And John, one of his devoted disciples, captures this prayer. And here's what's remarkable about this prayer, and here's why every Christian ought to know it and read it. Because at the end of this prayer, do you know that Jesus prays for you and for me? He prays for us. He prays for the church, for those who would believe according to the words of the disciples. And because our Savior prayed for us, we ought to spend some time there. We ought to know this passage, be familiar with it, and know what Jesus' petition is. So I'm going to read the portion where he prays for us. It's longer than I normally read in a sermon because I've been in services before, and I believe that when someone reads a large swath of Scripture that it's noble to do that, it's also disengaging and hard to listen to. So I don't do it very often. But this morning, we're going to read the whole part where he prays for us, all seven verses, and then we're going to come back to verse 21 for the bulk of what we're going to be talking about this week and next week. But look at what Jesus prays for us. Beginning in John chapter 17, verse 20. My prayer is not for them alone, meaning the disciples. I'm not just praying for the disciples is what Jesus is saying. I pray also for those who will believe in me through their message. That's us. Brought to complete unity. We could spend 12 weeks in that prayer. But I want to draw your attention to the beginning of it. I want you to notice what Jesus prays for us. I want you to notice what he asks God to do in us. And I want you to realize it's his only petition in this prayer on our behalf. He says this in verse 21, that all of them, Father, that all of them may be one, Father, just as you are in me and I am in you, may they also prayer before he prays in Gethsemane, that he prays for the church. He prays for all of those who would come to believe in his name from the message of the disciples. And in that prayer where he prays for his church, he makes a singular petition. Jesus's unity is Jesus's only petition for his church. That we would be one as he and the father are one. Unity is Jesus' only petition for his church. It's the only thing he prays for. He prays that others would come to know. He prays that we would know their glory. But the first thing he prays for and the only petition he makes that he asks of God is that we would be unified. That we would be one. And then Paul echoes this in Ephesians. Ephesians chapter 4. If you have a Bible, you can turn over there with me. I have mine marked, so I'm cheating. I'm definitely going to beat you to it. But in Ephesians chapter 4, he talks about it in verse 3 and then down in verse 13. Paul writes this, make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace. And then he gives them some more instructions and caps off that section, verse 13, until we all reach unity in the faith and in the knowledge of the Son of God and become mature, attaining the whole measure of the fullness of Christ. So what we see, based on what Jesus teaches us and what he prays for, would they be one so that the world may believe in me? And then what we see in Paul, would they be one so that they might be mature? Is it this idea of unity, unification in the body of Christ, big C church and little c church, what we see is that unity is essential to evangelism and maturity. It's essential to evangelism and maturity. The church can never be as effective at reaching a lost world when we are not unified. And according to what Paul writes, we will never reach a state of congregational spiritual maturity if we cannot find ways to be unified in this congregation. It's amazing to me how important unity is to Jesus, how many times it shows up in the Bible. David even writes in the Psalms how lovely it is when brothers dwell in unity together. It's amazing to me how common the message of unity amongst the body of believers is in the Scripture and how little we talk about it. Myself included. I've preached here, I'm finishing seven years. I don't know how many Sundays I've sat in John 17, but it's not been enough. And I don't understand why this message for unity isn't something that all Christians take very, very seriously. It's a command of Jesus. It's his only petition for his church, that we would be one and that we would be in him. And so if unity is that important to our Savior, then we need to talk about it. So we're going to talk about it this week and next week, and we're going to talk about it and frame up the conversation like this. I want us to think about, and this is what I've been thinking about, what are the biggest threats to that unity in the church? What do we see in the church dividing us, causing us to section off, causing us to judge Christian brothers and sisters as right or wrong or godly or not? And so the first thing I see that's a threat to our unity as a church, and when I say as a church, I mean Big C Church, but I have to talk specifically about Grace, because we don't have any say in any other churches. What I see as a threat to the unity of our church, one of them is our beliefs. The insistence through the decades and through the centuries that all Christians think the same thing about all the things. This is why we have so many different denominations. Why we are fundamentally disunified. We're going to talk about that next week. The other thing that threatens our unity as much as or more than anything else in America in 2024 is politics. So we're going to talk about that this morning. And I know that when I say that, the air goes out of the room. I've just stuck my face in the wood chipper, and we're going to see how this goes. I know some of you, this is your first time. I hope you've watched online before and know that we don't do this every week. Some of you brought your parents today. Great. Have fun at lunch. As they encourage you to find a new church. But I think that the disunity in our culture has gotten to such a fever pitch that we have to talk about it. And just so you know, everything that I'm going to say this morning, I've run by the elders. We started talking about it in the fall. I told them I knew that we were going to need to do this in 2024. The response was not enthusiastic. And then a few weeks ago, once I finalized my outline, I sat down with them at an elder meeting and I went through it with them. I've only done that with one other sermon in my tenure here. And I finished and they all said unanimously, that's a good message, church needs to hear it. And I said, great. So I'll have a job in May. And my least favorite elder, Doug Bergeson, looked at me and he grinned because he can't help. And he says, well, there's a lot in the delivery. And then what I saw this morning, he just walks up to me and stuck out his hand. He goes, good luck. And then walks away. Okay. There's two big reasons I feel like we need to talk about this as a church. The first is a personal conviction of mine that when there's something that enters into the national conscience of import, something that matters, like Taylor Swift and Travis Kelsey entered into our national conscience. We were all thinking about them the whole time during the football season. That's not really important. I don't need to address that in church. But when there's something of import, of weight, that enters into the national conscience, something that we're all thinking about as we go throughout our weeks, something that we're all talking about, something that to various degrees we're all aware of. Some of us are really, we have a lot of political opinions. We feel very strongly about what we believe and what our ideology is and why we believe it. And we're very involved and we watch, we consume all the news and all the podcasts. That's great. Some of us hate it. We just put our head in the sand because we want to avoid it because we wish it wasn't so divided and tough right now. But wherever we are, we're all thinking about it. And to me, as a pastor, it's my conviction that when something of weight enters into the national conscience and I don't address it, at best I'm negligent and at worst I'm cowardly. So we have to talk about it. And we have to talk about it because we should all be asking this question, and I know that we are. How should a Christian navigate the divisive climate of 2024? How should a Christian navigate this divisive climate of 2024? And we've heard this said in plenty of corners, and I don't think it's inaccurate, that this is one of, if not the most, divided time in our nation's history. There's been other times in our history where we've been divided. Obviously, the Civil War was pretty divisive. The era of Martin Luther King and the Vietnam War, I did not experience that, but I understand America was divided then. But I'm not sure that our country has ever been more ideologically divided. So extreme, so combative, and frankly, so judgmental of the side that's not you. We saw this in COVID. We saw it play out where we make everything political. There's a worldwide pandemic. It's a health and science issue. And how long did it take us? How long to run to our corners and begin to lob grenades at the other side for not thinking what we thought about how this should be handled? How long did it take us? Weeks. Before we kind of figured out, okay, who's going to be on what side? And what do I need to do to align with my side? And then we begin to judge the other side for not being as smart as us about science. And I remember in COVID, me personally, but I think you guys can relate. Thinking that everyone who took their mask off before I did, everyone who started going maskless in public was a right-wing lunatic. And everybody who wore their mask a little bit longer than I thought was necessary was a flaming liberal. That's what we thought. Sides had a uniform in COVID. It's ridiculous. I've lived this one out personally. Talk about how everything's divided and we assign politics to everything. The first few years I was here, I drove a Nissan Leaf, okay? And I got made fun of viciously for that. And here's the thing, I should have, all right? If you drive a Leaf, you're a nerd, okay? Deal with it. I did. But do you know that because of what I drove, and I drove it to save money, by the way, which I did. $220 cost of ownership in three years. It was worth it. But do you know that because of what I drove, people assumed I was a Democrat? Because of the car I drove. Not anything I said or preached. Not because of which news channel I consumed from, which that's a dead giveaway. They thought because of what I drove, I was a Democrat. And if you drive a Ford pick-em-up truck, people probably think you're a Republican. And if that pick-em-up truck is a Ranger and it's more than 20 years old, you are definitely a libertarian. 100%. Our culture is crazy divided. And I've been watching as a pastor for years. And I'm telling you, the way the church has behaved in that division grieves my heart. And we're talking about it in church because that divisiveness has begun to creep into the church. And since it's beginning to divide the church, we have to talk about it in the church. And here's how I know it's entered into the church. Because of this one question that we've heard, that we've asked, that we've been asked. How could you be a Christian and vote for blank? How could you possibly be a Christian and vote for blank? I told Laura, the lady running our slides this morning, that I left that blank open for her. She was free to put whatever she wanted there. She really wussed out. How can we be a, how could, this is, we asked this. How could you be a Christian and vote for him or vote for her? How could you claim to have a faith and back a party that is not aligned with your faith according to what I think your faith should be? How can you be a Christian and be happy about that policy, be happy about that ruling? How can you be a Christian and be sad about that policy or that ruling? Where what we do, and this is so important, is we begin to judge people's faith by their politics. The way that we think about politics should flow from the way that we think about our faith, that they should matter and be related. But where we get into trouble is when we start to judge the faith of a Christian brother or sister based on their politics and guys I'm telling you judging a Christian by their politics makes no more sense than judging my politics by my car it's foolish and we should be bigger than that. But we hear it over and over and over again. And so I would say this to us this morning as a church. If my politics cause me to question or cut off a Christian brother or sister, then I hold my politics too tightly. If I hold my political ideology so firmly that I judge the faith of a Christian brother and sister who doesn't vote like I do, or just overall intelligence, then what that tells me is that I'm holding my politics too tightly and I need to recalibrate. And listen, I know that this happens in this church because you have confessed it to me. Because I have had conversations with you on both sides where you will say something to me, you know, I love so-and-so, I just have a hard time understanding how they could vote that way. And it causes me to question them sometimes. On both sides. And that's damaging to the church. That's damaging to our unity. Can I just tell you? I've had the privilege of talking with plenty of folks from Grace about political issues who disagree with me a lot. But in that disagreement, and in our conversations over beers or dinner or whatever, you know what I have found about the side that thinks differently than me? That they love Jesus. That they know their scripture. That they're thoughtful in their vote. And that they deserve just as much credit for their ideas as I do for mine. There's this damaging way in the world where we frame up the side that doesn't vote like us as ignorant or silly or stupid or uninformed. And it's so funny to me how both sides think the other side is deceived and that they're the ones that know the right ways. We both think that of each other. Can we, this year, as believers, give people who don't vote like us the benefit of the doubt? Can we assume about them that they've put as much thought into their vote as I have into mine? That their vote is actually reflective of Christian values that they love and hold dear? And we just play those things out differently? Can we this year at Grace give the other side the benefit of the doubt? Let me tell you the biggest reason that we should do this. It's actually because of something that Jesus says in his prayer. I'll refer you back to John chapter 17, this time in verse 14. He says, I have given them your word and the world has hated them for they are not of the world any more than I am of the world. He's talking about the disciples. And he says, they are not of this world any more than I am of this world. And I have a note in my Bible off to the side that just says citizens of heaven. And I think that's such an important principle for believers to understand. Once you are saved, once you accept Christ as your savior, once you believe that he is who he says he is, believe that he did what he said he did, believe that he's going to do what he says he's going to do. Once you do that, you become a citizen of heaven. You are not of this world anymore. I brought this up in January to plant a seed of this idea in the congregation that we are citizens of heaven because I knew I was going to come to it in March when it came time for this. Guys, we are citizens of heaven. We are not citizens of the United States of America. We are, but that's beneath our ultimate citizenship. We are aliens here. We do not belong here. We are sojourners. The only reason God doesn't snap us right up to heaven once we become a Christian is so that we can take as many people with us along the way as is humanly possible. It's the only reason we're here. But we are citizens of heaven. We are not citizens here. Listen to me. This is so important. The church is above partisan American politics. We're above it. Politics are beneath us. Do you understand? The church is above that. We exist above the fray. We ought not get mired in silly Facebook debates and arguments with people that only lead to anger and are not productive. We're above that, church. We're citizens of heaven. Our fidelity is to God. Our nation is in eternity. This temporal stuff, see, to people who don't believe, to people who don't have a faith, politics is a huge deal because it's how you bring about change and it's how you affect the world and it's how you form it into what you want it to be. But we skip a step, guys. We're not going to American politics. We're not looking at the president of the Supreme Court or the Senate or the governor or any of that to bring about the will of God. We're looking to God to pull those levers. We serve something higher. And when we get mired in the divisiveness of the world, in the grenade throwing and in the lobbying and in the attacking and in the judgment, we forget who we are. And I'm not saying this to upset anyone or to offend anyone, but maybe it can help us frame up the way we think about ourselves and what our relationship to politics ought to be. And listen, I'm not saying that Christians shouldn't have political opinions. I have a ton. I'm not going to say a single one of them from here. But I'd love to talk with you about them. I'd love to have a conversation. I get so much from talking about different ideas with people. I love it. Be as interested as you want. I have nothing to say to you about that. Be as disinterested as you want. I have nothing to say to you about that. My goal this morning is not at all to tell you how to vote or to even get you to think about your vote. My only goal this morning is to get us to think about how we think about people who don't vote like we do. So here's my prayer. And here's what I want to invite you into with me. Let's all pray that in 2024, grace can be an oasis of unity and a desert of division. Let's make it our prayer that this place, we don't get to impact Big C Church, but we can decide who we want to be here. That grace will be an oasis of unity and a desert of division. This is actually something I'm proud of Grace about. We are a purple church. We have people on both sides. And we play nice together. And I'm so grateful for that. But I think that we have strides to take. I think that we have room to grow. And I want to know that the people of grace, as we're interacting in the community, as we carry ourselves through the rest of this year, and guys, it's only going to get worse. It's only going to get worse. The division and the disunity and all the lob throwing and all the garbage, all the crud, it's only going to get worse. What if, as that happens around us, we can be this oasis of unity that sees ourself above the fray, that understands that we are citizens of heaven first, loyal to our Savior before a country. And we're actually unified. And we actually love each other. And we refuse to allow the divisiveness out there creep into here and disrupt what God wants to do with us. So in 2024, please pray with me that grace will be an oasis of unity and a desert of division. Thank you for listening and for not walking out. If you have questions about anything, I'd love to get an email and have a conversation. I'm going to pray and then in a show of unity, we're going to shout out to God together. Let's pray. Father, we are sorry for where we have allowed our political ideology to color the way we think about your children. And Father, we ask that you would remove that sin from us. Father, I ask that you would remove it from me. Lord, the enemy and the world would seek to distract your church by dividing us with small fights and squabbles. Would you remind us, God, that we don't belong here, we belong with you, that we are citizens of heaven, and that we are above what's happening now. Help us be agents of peace and unity in our various circles of influence. Help us to be beacons that shine above the fray as this is going to be a hard year for our country and for our communities. God, unite us under you. In Jesus' name, amen.

Hi, good morning. My name is Nate. I get to be one of the pastors here. Before I dive into the sermon, a couple things about worship. First of all, Carly B. killed it on that last song. That was great. Yeah, I don't know where she is, but good job, Carly. Her last name is Buchanan, so we call her Carly B. around here. And then the second thing, I just want to let you in on something. And I feel like this is an important matter to bring to the church. Aaron's back there. He knows what I'm about to talk about. I don't know if you noticed during the second song that Carly and Aaron were smiling and looking at me, and I was laughing. Here's why, and I feel like we should all weigh in on this as partners. If you're not from the South, I don't care what you think about this. One of my favorite things about hymns, I'm just totally, this has nothing to do with anything. I'm just telling you a story. One of my favorite things about hymns is how liberal the writers are with apostrophes. In hymns, they'll apostrophe anything, right? And one of my favorite ones is victory. Not victory like an obnoxious carpetbagger. Victory like a southerner. You know what I'm saying? Like victory. It's best in Victory in Jesus, that old hymn. So anyways, last week we're singing that song that we sang, the second one. What's that called, Aaron? I'm not telling. And there's victory in there. There's the word victory in there, but you sing it victory. You know, you sing it like that, but it's not apostrophe. Now it's bummed out. And then like two slides down, we apostrophed flowers, the E in flowers. How do you even, flowers, how do you even say that? That's not a thing. How are we going to apostrophe flowers and not victory? So it just made me mad. And I told Aaron and Carly last week, and I didn't know we were singing it this week. So it comes up and they're both giggling at me and I'm grinning at them. Anyways, now you know too, and we can together peer pressure him to fix the lyrics. So there is an apostrophe and victory as the Lord intended. Okay, let's get started. Actually, these words don't mean anything to you because I know that I'm the boy that cries excited. I know that. I'm excited about everything that I get to preach. I know that I say that to you. I'm really excited about this. This is a sermon that I knew I was going to preach as soon as we planned the series. I knew that we would arrive at this passage, and I've been very much looking forward to diving into it with you. So if you have a Bible with you, and I hope you do, go ahead and turn it to John chapter 13. This is the beginning of the Upper Room Discourse. You'll remember that this is a series called Final Thoughts. These are the final things that Jesus shared with the disciples before he was arrested and tried and crucified. And so it's just Jesus and the disciples in the upper room, and he has some final thoughts for them, and they're in John chapters 13 through 17. So the back half of John chapter 13, after washing their feet, Jesus starts to share with them. And if you look at verses 34 and 35, I'm not sure that you could definitively say what the most important and profound words of Christ are in his whole life. I don't know that there would be an agreement among scholars or pastors or believers as to what are the most important, most profound words Jesus ever spoke. But I know that you couldn't have that conversation without talking about what we find in those verses. I believe that what Jesus says here is so profound and powerful that hyperbole is lost on the import of these verses. So I want to look at them and read them with you. If you're a believer, I hope these are well-trodden verses for you. I hope you already almost know them before I even say them. And I hope, if you have your Bible with you, that you'll grab a pen and that you'll underline these verses. And that you'll highlight some of the phrases. We're going to spend the whole morning in these two verses, and we're going to look at three profound statements that Jesus makes in this compact section of text. And I hope that you'll take a pen and you'll underline and you'll mark. I hope that you'll make notes for yourself in your Bible. I've learned from a young age that if you show me a Bible that's falling apart, then I'll show you a person who isn't. So let's beat up our Bibles. Let's mark in them. Let's scratch in them. And let's note this passage together. John chapter 13, verses 34 and 35. This is Jesus speaking. A new command I give you. Love one another as I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this, everyone will know that you are my disciples if you love one another. That's a well-worn passage. This is a passage we ought to be familiar with. This is a passage of which the profundity cannot be overstated. It's so profound and stuck with the disciples so much in their memory that 30 years later, when two people who were in the room, Peter and John, when they write their epistles, when they write their letters to the church to be spread throughout the church and read throughout the church, they both included this maxim in their instructions, in their brief instructions to the church. In 1 Peter 4, 8, Peter says, above all else, love one another dearly. After everything's said and done, love one another dearly. John, in his three letters, 1st, 2nd, and 3rd John, over and over and over again, if you say you believe in God and you do not love your brother, then you are a liar and the truth is not in you. He brings it back to love, back to love, back to love. Even Paul, who wrote two-thirds of the New Testament, was not in this room, did not hear this teaching personally, but heard it proclaimed by the disciples after him. When Paul writes his letter to Corinth, he ends it with that famous love passage. And he says, now after everything is said and done, in eternity, these three things remain, faith, hope, and love. And the greatest of these? Love. We cannot overstate the importance, the efficacy, and the power of love. And this is what Jesus commands us here. It's how he opens his closing remarks. And so if it's so powerful and effective that everyone who's ever followed Jesus has reminded the people that they lead of this command, then we ought to look at the command and examine it and pick it apart and seek to understand it. And, I think, let the power of it wash over us. So the first portion of the text I want to point you to, a profound statement, is when he says this, a new command I give you. A new command I give you. Underline that in your Bible. Here's why this is profound. We know, because we have the benefit of hindsight, that Jesus is God. We understand the deity of Christ. They did not. They did not yet understand the deity of Christ. Certainly not the way that we do. You remember that when they're on the Sea of Galilee and Jesus is sleeping in the hull of the ship and the wind and the waves are crashing, that they go down and they wake Jesus up. And he says, peace be still. And the storm calms. And he goes back to sleep, a little bit annoyed that his nap got interrupted. And the disciples looked at each other. And they said, it's in the text. And they said, who is this that even the wind and the waves would obey him? They still do not understand the deity of Christ. In this moment, they understand loosely the deity of Christ, but not like we do. And so when Jesus says this new command I give you, he is placing himself solidly in the Trinity. He is placing himself as God because a new command has not been given for 4,000 years. 4,000 years ago, Moses walked down the mountain with two tablets of stone with a lot more than 10 commandments written on them. If you read the text, you find it was the 10, but then they were covered front and back. There's 630 some odd laws in the Old Testament based on Mosaic law. Nobody in Israel since then had given a new commandment because nobody had the authority to do it. Moses gave the commandments from God himself. God himself wrote on those tablets and gave them to Moses, and no one had questioned it since then. No one gives new commandments. That's not a thing that you can do unless you're God. So when Jesus says this, he's claiming that he is God. And I don't know how to help us understand how radical what he's doing is, but the only thing I can equate it to is our Bill of Rights, our Constitution. No citizen can just decide, I'm going to add an amendment. I hereby declare, and then add an amendment. As a matter of fact, we'll test this out. I'd like to add one right now. I hereby declare as an amendment to the United States Constitution that daylight savings time is stupid and abolished. I woke up an hour and a half late this morning. I should have only been a half hour late. But daylight savings time. It's stupid. And likes it. And nobody needs it. We're long since agrarian. All right. Nebraska can keep it if they want it. We're squared away. Thanks. But that doesn't do anything. I don't just get to add amendments willy-nilly. There's a whole process. If we can't add amendments to a document that some guys wrote 200 years ago, you definitely can't start adding commandments that God wrote 4,000 years ago. But Jesus does. And he says it's a new one. And this commandment, one of the things that makes it so radical, is that this commandment serves as a summary for all the commandments. This commandment serves as a summary for all the commandments. It's not that Jesus is saying, you don't have to worry about any of the stuff that you've been commanded previously. Go be adulterers. Go murder people. Knock yourselves out as long as you're loving people on the way. You're good. That's not the idea. We get a glimpse of the idea earlier in Christ's life when someone says, what's the greatest commandment? And the response is, love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul, and mind, and love your neighbor as yourself. These are the greatest commandments with promise. On these hang the law and the prophets, meaning the entire Old Testament. And so what Jesus says in that statement is, basically, if you'll focus on loving God and loving others, the commandments will take care of themselves. It's not that you won't be walking in obedience or you'll be walking in disobedience to them. It's that you will automatically obey them by default. And so Jesus is being even more succinct here with this new commandment to love others as I have loved you and saying, as a matter of fact, just love others as I have loved you. Because if you're doing that, if you are loving the people in your life as Jesus loves us, you will by default be loving God with all your heart, soul, and mind. Because you cannot love as Jesus loved if you're not fueled by Jesus. You will by default. you're not going to have an affair. You're not going to go around murdering. You're not going to steal. You're not going to say unkind words. You're going to outdo one another in hospitality. You're going to be generous. You're going to be humble. You're not going to be greedy if we simply love other people as Christ loved us. It's the command that summarizes all the other commands, which makes it such an impactful command. And here's why it takes walking with Jesus to love like Jesus. Because Jesus loved in superhuman ways. That's the second big one I want you to underline. Let me just say it real quick. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. That's the new command. Now here's why this is so radical. Have you ever been betrayed? Have you ever let someone into your life? Made yourself vulnerable to them? Given them the power to hurt you? And they have? Which, by the way, I think is vitally important to live vulnerable lives and have people invited into our life who do have the power and the capacity to hurt us because they know us that well and we love them that much. That's okay. That's a good thing. But have you ever done that with somebody who then betrayed you? Who used that exposure to hurt you? I know I've not experienced terrible betrayal, but I've tasted it. I've let people in, shared things, been vulnerable with them, and then that ended up getting used against me. That ended up getting turned towards me. That ended up with them judging me and not loving me. And that's hard. I shared years ago about when I did a sermon on forgiveness about a dear friend of mine whose husband had been having multiple affairs and it all blew up in their face one day. She had five kids under the age of 10. That's betrayal. I've never experienced betrayal like that. But I've tasted what it is to let someone in and then watch them hurt me. And if you've experienced betrayal too, let me ask you a question. If you could go back to when that person who hurt you entered into your life, and there was some sort of divine whisper that came to you and said, hey, just so you know, if you let this person in, they will hurt you. They are going to betray you. They're going to let you down and betray your confidence. If you somehow knew that at the very beginning of the relationship where they entered your life, if you knew it, how differently would you treat them? How much would you let them in? Would you let them in at all? When I think of the people who've hurt me, I go back to those places. If you were to ask me that question, hey, if you knew at the beginning that they were going to hurt you if you let them in, what would you do? I wouldn't be their friend. I wouldn't let them in. If my life forced me to be around them, I would be very guarded. I would have treated them completely differently. How would you treat the people in your life who have hurt you if you knew at the onset that they were going to do that? Would you have loved them differently? Would you have not let them in? Would that relationship have looked different? Something occurred to me as I was thinking through this passage. Immediately before Jesus starts this teaching, do you know what happened? He washed the feet of the disciples. And then he said, one of you is going to betray me. And then it comes that it was Judas. And he looked at Judas and he says one of the coolest lines in the Bible, what you're about to do, go and do it quickly. And Judas goes to betray him. Don't miss this. Jesus knew. He knew when he invited him in. When he called Judas to be his disciple. He knew. He knew he was going to get betrayed for 30 pieces of silver. He knew that. He knew who Jesus was when he walked up to him and he tapped his shoulder and he said, I want to invite you into my life for three years. I want you to spend every day with me. And I know what you're going to do at the end of those three years and you don't even know it yet. Jesus knew, man. And here's what's amazing. Nobody else did. We have no indication whatsoever from the text that Jesus treated Judas any differently than any of the other disciples. When they're sitting around the table, and Jesus says, one of you is going to betray me, nobody went, it's Judas, isn't it? I knew. I could tell. Nobody did that. Because Jesus treated them all the same. You understand that? He loved them all the same. For three years, he loved Judas with the same consistency and compassion and tenderness that he loved John. Polar opposite of a disciple. Is that not remarkable? How could you do that? How could you walk every day with someone who was going to betray you to be killed? Not just hurt your feelings like a little sissy, but betray you to be killed. Was gonna be the one who kissed you on the cheek to identify you to the guard of the high priest so that they could arrest you and beat you and kill you. And you love them the exact same as all their peers. Right before Jesus was betrayed, he washed Judas' feet. His grimy, sandaled, third world feet. So that he could go collect his betrayal money with clean toes. He had the freshly minted, humble love of Christ on his feet when he went to cash his check. And that's how Jesus loves Judas. Now here's what's important. You are Judas. I am Judas. We have, all of us, betrayed Christ in word and thought and deed. All of us have trampled on the grace of Christ. All of us have presumed upon his mercy. All of us have cheapened the blood of his sacrifice with our actions and our attitudes and our words. All of us. We are Judas. And yet, knowing the betrayal that you would bring, Jesus loves you anyways. That's the reckless nature of the love that we just sang about a few minutes ago. He continues to pursue us. He continues to come after us. He knows you're going to betray him in word and deed. He knows that you're going to trample on his death. He knows that you're going to cheapen his blood. He knows that and he loves you anyways. And you push him away and you betray him and you act in a way during the week that you won't act on a Sunday morning or you won't act on small group or you'll watch things that you're not supposed to watch. You'll take in things that you're not supposed to take in. You'll foster attitudes that you know he doesn't love and that he doesn't approve of. But he died for those anyways. He knew that you were going to betray him over and over and over again and he died for you anyways. He went anyways. He washed your feet anyways. He loved you anyways. That's how Jesus loves. So when Jesus says, go and love as I have loved you, that's what he means. Go love other people like I love Judas. It's not fair. They're going to hurt you. Okay, that's how I loved. They're not going to reciprocate. You're going to feel foolish. Okay. That's how I loved. It's going to cost something from me that I'm not going to get back. Okay. That's how I loved. That love is so powerful and profound that loving like Jesus is only made possible by walking with Jesus. Loving like Jesus is only made possible by walking with Jesus. We just spent two weeks on abiding in Christ. Two weeks on what it means to abide in him. If we are not abiding in Christ, there is no possible way we can love like Jesus loved. And what's interesting is the promise of abiding is abide in me and I in you and you will bear much fruit. What's the fruit of abiding in Christ? This kind of love. Sacrificial, reckless love that overcomes betrayal and humanity and hardship. This is the fruit of abiding in Christ. And here's what's remarkable about this fruit. Here's, not only does loving others as Christ loved us keep us in line with all the commandments, not only does it keep us attached to him and abiding in him because it's the only possible way to love like that, but it also becomes our defining marker. This is the third remarkable statement that we find in these verses. The third one, underline this. By this, everyone will know you are my disciples. By this, everyone will know that you are my disciples. Love, we are told, church, is to be our defining marker to the world. And it's interesting to me how off the mark we can get. I remember one time when I missed the mark really, really badly. I was 15 years old, and we were hosting at our house Thanksgiving or Christmas for my mom's family that year. And we were a teetotaling house. No alcohol at all, ever. It was demon's liquor. And my aunt came over with, at the time, her roommate, Molly. And they brought with them a bottle of wine. And we didn't have a corkscrew in the house. We didn't have a wine opener. And so my mom said, son, will you go next door and borrow a corkscrew from our neighbor? And I, in my misguided 15-year-old piety, said, absolutely not. We don't drink alcohol in this house. And we're not starting today. Not doing it. God help my parents. I must have been impossible. Don't worry. Have you met Lily? I've got it coming. I'm going to walk the path. I refused to go. And my mom, I think probably a little misguidedly proud of me then, and now she's as ashamed of this as I am, didn't make me. I just said, well, looks like we're not doing it today, Indiana. And they put their bottle of wine back in the car. Now, Deanna and Molly had walked away from the church at that point. And as I reflect back on my actions that day, I'm so ashamed that I thought that the defining marker for my faith that day needed to be my piety and my holiness and the rules that I followed and the things that I did and didn't do. And we get really misguided at church that the best Christians are the ones who have the best grasp on their behavior, who do the things they're supposed to do and don't do the things they're not supposed to do, and the best knowledge of Scripture. We tend to judge someone's faith not by how well they love, which is what Jesus says the defining marker should be, but we judge the faith of others by how well they've reined in their behavior and how much they've learned about scripture. And don't get me wrong, those things are important. God is a God of holiness. He does want us to press towards piety, but the press towards piety, the press towards holiness, the press towards righteousness, the press towards having a guilt-free conscience should be in a desire to love as Jesus loved, not in a desire to prove ourselves and our holiness to others. And what kind of damage, what message did it send to my aunt that day? Rejection? Judgment? Holier than thou? It was a singularly unloving act to not just go get the stupid corkscrew. And instead, they felt judged. There's no way my actions turned them on to the church. There's no possible way I did that and they're like, you know what? I see Jesus in that boy. I want to know that Jesus because I want to start telling other people where they're screwing up. But isn't that historically what we look to to define spirituality. When Jesus says, the defining marker of your faith, how I want the world to know you, is by your love for other people. It ought to be our defining characteristic. And I'm not going to wade too deeply into these waters this morning because I don't have time and it's messy. But I would simply ask you, as you think about where church sits in the culture of America, is that our defining characteristic? Is that what the outside world would say that we are known for? It is, however, one of the things I am proud of grace for. Because I do think there are spots and moments where we do this really, really well. And what we see when we love really well is that love is actually the greatest apologetic. Love is the most compelling argument for Christ, especially in a culture saturated with church. If there's somebody in your neighborhood, if there's somebody you work with, if there's a friend that you have on your tennis team or wherever you go, and they don't go to church, let me tell you something. It's not because they haven't heard about it. It's not because they don't know. It's not because they haven't heard the name of Jesus and they're just waiting to be told. They know. And let me tell you something. The people that you know who don't go to church, can I just tell you, they have a reason. And can I tell you this? It's probably a good one. So the greatest apologetic to a culture of people who have on purpose turned away from the church is to love them well. It's more convincing than any book. It's more convincing than A Case for Faith by Lee Strobel, although that's a great one. It's more convincing than any argument or TV show. Showing them the love of Christ compels them towards Christ. I think this is the way I put it. Loving someone in the name of Jesus compels them towards Jesus. Loving someone in the name of Christ like Christ loves compels them towards Christ. And here's why I think it can be so effective and so contagious. I heard this story a couple of weeks ago, and I was so proud when I heard it. In the fall, we had the Addis Jamari, one of our great ministry partners doing great work with the orphans in Ethiopia, had an event last fall. And whenever there's an AJ event, Addis Jamari, it's like 75% grace people, at least, right? And so one of our partners invited some friends that they used to work with to come to the event and see what AJ does. And the friends that they invited are a part of a church in the kind of way that there's a church where you're on their membership role, which is, and you have to remove your letter and stuff like that, which is, I don't understand. I don't understand it. I got a, germane to nothing, I got a letter early on in my tenure here that someone who I had never met was requesting removal of their letter from this church to this other church down the road. And I just wrote them back and I was like, consider all letters moved, ever. You don't have to ever ask me this again. I don't know what this means. So some churches had their letter for like 20 years, but they don't really go. I haven't been since their kids went around. They're kind of cold to church. But they came to this AJ event. And after spending an evening around grace people, they pulled my friend aside and they said, there's something different here. You guys actually like, you like each other. You guys see, everyone knows everyone's name. You seem to get along. This is not like churches we've been around. We want to find out more about your church. So they did. They went to dinner. They told them a little bit more. And I've gotten to spend some time around them. And they say that they're wanting to start coming. They may be watching online. Hey. But it wasn't an argument. It wasn't an invitation. It wasn't a book. It wasn't a moment of conviction. It was an exposure to a group of people who want to connect people to Jesus and connect people to people. It was an exposure to the love and the community shared in the church. And they said, I want to be a part of that. That is a compelling love. The challenge, church, is not simply to love each other that way, but to love everyone that way and to be obedient to this new command. Can you imagine with me the power and efficacy of a church that is zealous about loving as Christ loves. Can you imagine how contagious that faith would be? Can you imagine how exuberant our worship would be every Sunday? Can you imagine how much better I'm going to have to step it up to preach to you because you've been preaching to yourself the love of Christ every day and loving everybody in your neighborhood? Can you imagine the power of a group of people who comes together and takes seriously this new command that Jesus gives us and says, you know what? Everything else is fine. It'll take care of itself. I'm going to focus on the loving. And we took steps to abide in Christ, to walk with him, and we let him produce the fruit in our lives, which is this love. And we love everybody the way that Jesus loves Judas and loves us. Can you imagine what God could do with a church of people like that? I asked you earlier, what do you think the Big C Church is known for? What's our defining characteristic? And I don't know where you went and I don't know what you thought, but here's what I do know. We don't have any say over what other churches do, nor should we, by the way. We barely deserve say here, I question it. But we have say over who we are and over what we do. And wouldn't it be amazing if when people heard the name Grace Raleigh in our community, if the first thing they thought was, that church loves well. What if that were our defining characteristic? Let's make it so, Grace. Let's be Christians who love well. Let's be Christians who make that our identifying trait over and above all the other elements of our faith. And let's watch what God can do with a church of people who love like him. Let's pray. Father, we love you because you love us. We can never hope to love like you without you. We thank you for your reckless, sacrificial love. For watching your son suffer and die the way that he did. So that you could claim souls to heaven that would betray you and trample on you over and over again on our way there. God, if nothing else, would we sit humbly and graciously in the reality of your love for us? And as we do that, Father, would it please compel us to go love others in your name? We ask these things in the name of Jesus. Amen.

Well, good morning, everybody. It's good to see you. My name is Nate. I get to be one of the pastors here. You guys have not gotten the memo. Church attendance spikes in January and February and then begins to dip in March. There's too many of you here. I hope this is a problem we continue to have. Thanks for making grace a part of your Sunday. I've really enjoyed getting to spend the last four weeks in the Upper Room Discourse, the final statements of Jesus to his disciples the night that he was arrested and crucified. And so we are calling this series His Final Thoughts because these are the last things he shares with just the intimate group of disciples. And we find this discourse in John, the back half of chapter 13, all the way through chapter 17, where we get this beautiful prayer of Christ called the High Priestly Prayer. I'm excited to be focused on that for two weeks here in another few weeks. But like Mike, our double-duty coffee guy and announcer guy this morning told us, we spent last week in the concept of abiding in Christ and why it's so important. And last week I said that the invitation to abide in Christ is a gift of simplicity amidst a world of confusion and chaos. That we're all asking ourselves these major questions. Am I making the right decision? And am I being a good fill in the blank, whatever you are. And that when we abide in Christ, the promise there is that Jesus will say yes, that we will do what we are supposed to do and that we will be what we are supposed to be when we simply focus on abiding in Christ. And we left off with this question of that's great, but life is still confusing and chaotic. Life is still very busy. I still have to do carpool. I still have to make the meetings. I still have to make the calls. I still have to do the things. I still have to live a life. So how do I abide in Christ, short of going to a monastery, in my life now? How do I abide? And so that's what we're tackling this week. So this week's sermon, really, if I'm being honest, is more of a seminar. This is intended to be practical and to be applicable to your life. So I would tell you up front that I do not expect everybody in the room to do all the things that I'm saying. Some of us aren't ready for them yet. Some of us have already started doing those things. Some of them it's not new. So I don't expect everything I say and suggest this morning to go, oh my gosh, that's so great. I've never thought about that. But my hope and my prayer is that there can be two or three things that you hear that will change your life because you begin to instill them into your life and it changes the course of your life. So that's my goal for you, that you'd pick up just a handful of things this morning that you can begin to apply in your life right away. As we answer this question together, how do I abide in Christ just day in and day out? How do I walk with the Lord? So to remind us of what we're talking about, I just wanted to start off by reading the passage. It's not going to be on the screen. And we're having some gremlins on the screen this morning. So if all of a sudden it just goes out, don't worry about it. Just keep following along. The only song we have left is How Great Thou Art. Most of you know it. So we'll be all right. If you have a Bible, open to John chapter 15. Read with me verses 4 and 5. This is where we are last week and this week. Jesus is speaking. Remain in me as I also remain in you. No branch can bear fruit by itself. It must remain in the vine. Neither can you bear fruit unless you remain in me. I am the vine. You are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit. For apart from me, you can do nothing. And we talked last week about how some translators choose the word remain and some choose the word abide. I memorized this passage or got acquainted with this passage with an abide translation, so that's why I say abide. But the concept is the exact same. So here's what I want to do. As we ask the question, how do we day-to-day abide in Christ? What I want to do is I want to give you three guiding principles for abiding in Christ, and then we want to look at how we can apply those guiding principles to the different areas of our life, to our work or our school, to our home, to our friendships, and then to our alone time. So that's where we're going to go this morning. First of the three guiding principles to how can I daily abide in Christ is simply anchor your day in Christ. If you want to abide in Christ, anchor your day in Christ. If you have been here, if you have come to more than four services, you have heard me say at some point that the single most important habit anyone can develop in their life is to wake up every day and spend time in God's word and time in prayer. It's what I consider a keystone habit. There are some habits that are so fundamental that they begat other habits. This is one of those for us, especially for believers. We need to wake up every day and spend time in God's word and time in prayer for myriad reasons. But if you're a parent, how are you going to teach your children the scriptures if you don't know them? If there's a verse in the Bible that says, I will hide God's word in my heart that I might not sin against you, how are we going to do that if we don't study the Bible on our own? How are we ever going to become acquainted with God's word in such a way that we can teach it and instruct it and know it and it nourishes us if the only bit of God's word are what we're getting from church every Sunday. It just won't work. This Sunday, I just read you two verses that I read you last Sunday. I'm going to read you one more verse in Philippians. That's the verse eight. Aaron read six, or where did you start? Four. Four through seven. And then I'm going to do eight. All right? So that's five verses or four verses, however the math works there. And then two more right now. That's it. That's all you're getting this week if you're not reading the Bible on your own. So we've got to read the Bible on our own. Similarly, we've got to pray on our own. We have to pursue the presence of God. We have to find a spot, get on our knees, and pray. I think posture is important in prayer. I'm not saying you have to do it. I'm just saying it helps me when I pray. And, you know, I know that some people say I'm not a morning person. I like to do my quiet time later in the day. That's fine. Do it whenever you want to do it. But for me, I anchor my day in it. I've got to start out that way. Find a place, find a habit that works for you and anchor your day in Christ by having a quiet time. If you don't know how to have a quiet time, if you're in a rut, if you need some suggestions, if you just like some more information, I've done a couple of things. I wrote a daily devotion guide. It's on the information table out there. We have two tables. We have a coffee table and an information table. You guys can piece it together where it is. This is just a guide on how much do I read, where do I read, when I pray, what do I pray about, how do I pray. And there's some resources in there. So if you're in a rut, there's some suggestions of some places that you can go and know how to have a quiet time. So I made that for you guys if you need it. And then there's also one of these, a Bible translation guide. There's a bunch of different translations of the Bible. A lot of times I get asked which one's right for me, which one should I be reading? And this is the answer, okay? This kind of tells you there's three major approaches to how translations are done, and I detail those, and that might help you as you decide which one you want to use in your daily study. But the first guiding principle is to anchor our day in Christ. We have to start with a quiet time if we're going to hope to be walking with Christ through the day. The second one is to practice the presence of Christ. If we want to abide in Christ, we have to practice the presence of Christ. I'm stealing this phrasing from a 17th century French monk named Brother Lawrence. I don't know what his actual name was, but when he went to the monastery, he took on the name Brother Lawrence. It's called The Practice of the Presence of God. It is the single best book on prayer I've ever read. I believe for some of you, the thing you're supposed to get from the sermon this morning is to go read The Practice of the Presence of God. You can write that down on your bulletin or type it out on your phone, and then you don't have to listen anymore. As a matter of fact, if you want to leave to just make some space for other people, you can do that. Go get the book and read. It's a phenomenal book, Practice the Presence of God. But one of the things I pulled from that is this idea of being constantly with Christ, just knowing that wherever I go, I'm taking Him with me. And so it taught me this little phrase that sometimes I'm spiritual enough to remember, I am with Christ, Christ is with me. Everywhere we go, if you're a Christian, he tells us in the upper room discourse that he gives us the spirit. We have his spirit with us. Everywhere we go, I am with Christ, Christ is with me. As I go into a meeting at work, I am with Christ. Christ is with me. As I go into my office, as we go into traffic, as we go into the store, as we interact with the slow person behind the cash register, I am with Christ. Christ is with me. Everywhere we go, this should be our mantra. This should be what we repeat to ourselves. We take it into and out. We take him with us into and out of every situation. On the golf course, I am with Christ. At work, I am with Christ. At home, I am with Christ. Practicing the presence of Jesus. A story that kind of brings this home for me that I heard years ago. I heard it one time and I've never forgotten it. And I think I may have told it to you guys before, but indulge me. This is not a true story. This did not actually happen. If it did actually happen, it would be super weird. So it's a fable, all right, but it makes a good point. So there's this church, and there's this one guy in the church who's known just to be a phenomenal prayer. He has a remarkable prayer life. He's incredibly disciplined. He's the guy they always call on for the public prayers. Prayers are beautiful. And he's just this monkish spiritual figure in the church. Everyone respects him. Darn it. Chris Lott is a buddy of mine. He's sitting right here. He's looking at me, and I just edited about four jokes at his expense, and then I lost my train of thought because you had some sort of dumb grin on your face because you knew. Because you knew it. You knew I was thinking that, didn't you? Yeah, that's right. All right, well, let's get back on track, buddy. I don't even know what I was talking about. Oh, the story. The story. This godly guy, the story. Well, sorry. Then the lights were shining off your head. I got distracted again. So some guys from the church said, we want to hear his prayer life. We want to hear. He's such a great prayer. I bet his prayer at the end of the day is phenomenal. I want to hear his prayer at the end of the day. I want to know what his conversation is with God when he closes out his day and goes to bed. And so they decide what they're going to do, and this is how we know it's not true, is they hide in his closet. We're going to hide in his closet. We're going to wait for him to go to bed. So they're in there. They're doing whatever you do when you're hiding in somebody's closet. And then he comes in. It's nighttime. It's 930. It's time to tuck in. And so he does his routine. He brushes his teeth. He does whatever he does. And then they're expecting he's going to kneel next to the bed. He's going to pray. But he doesn't kneel. It's weird. He just gets in. And they're like, okay, I didn't think laying down prayer. But maybe he's trying to prostrate himself like Christ did in the garden. Maybe that's what he's doing. He's going to pray that way. And he gets in, and he pulls up the covers, and he rolls over, and all they do is hear him say, goodnight Jesus. And that was it. Which makes a phenomenal point about an active, everyday, constant prayer life, and obedience to Paul's instructions in Thessalonians, pray without ceasing. So if we are going to abide in Christ, we have to practice the presence of Christ and bring him with us everywhere we go and talk to him constantly. Now, I know some people are actually pretty good at this. Some people are actually pretty good at doing what I just call like kind of sniper shot prayers throughout the day. Just kind of one-offs of God help me here, God help me here, God help me here. And that's great. And then other people are good at the basing foundational prayer where we pray about all the things in the morning. And some people are good at both, and that's really great. But if you are good at one and not the other, then maybe turn the dial on the other and let's see that prayer life start to escalate. But that's practicing the presence of Christ. The third guiding principle, and I think this one's so important, especially now, is consume what draws you to Christ. Consume what draws you to Christ. And I use that word consume very intentionally because I believe we have got to be, if we consider ourselves, if we consider whoever's alive one generation, we have got to be the most consumptive generation of humans that have ever walked the planet. We have to be. We are all day, every day. And the younger you get, the worse it is. All day, every day, taking things in, consuming things, conversation, media, TV, phone, all the time, radio, podcasts, all the time. It's just piped into it. The world has a funnel into our brain, just shoving information in there all the time. I mean, if you think about it, almost, I'm 42, I'll be 43 here in a little bit. So almost 30 years ago, I was sitting in the DMV getting my driver's license. And the DMV has made zero innovations in 30 years. And it's still just as satanic as it was then. It's terrible. It's the worst place on earth. And when you go there, because they have engineered it to make you hate it, it's slow. It takes forever. And when I was waiting two hours to go back a car up into some cones, I, you know what I did for those two hours of the DMV? Nothing. You just sat there and you stared at the wall and you counted bricks and you wondered why it was taking so long, and you thought about your life. You contemplated all the decisions that had led you there. If you wanted something to do at the DMV, you took a book. You took a Sudoku thing or something. I don't think they had invented Sudoku in 1997. But you know what you do now? When you have 30 seconds of dead time, you have 30 seconds of something not entertaining you, don't raise your hand. How many of you at traffic lights grab your phone? He's like, I don't know what to do anymore. And you just grab it because you need something to look at, something to inform you, something that you consume. We are the most consumptive generation of people who have ever existed. We have no dead space in our life. So just as an aside, we should seek silence and stillness sometimes so that the Lord can speak to us. But living in the reality of how consumptive we are, when you do consume things, we need a filter. Is this pushing me closer to Jesus or is it pulling me away from him? Is this inspiring me and increasing my desire for Christ or is it decreasing my desire for Christ? The things that we have that take up our attention every day, we ought to at least assess whether or not they are inflaming us and impassioning us towards Jesus or whether they are blunting and muting that passion so that it fades away. We should at least be aware of that. And I'm not advocating that I think it's possible to just pipe spiritual things into ourselves at all times. But I am certain that all of us have some room to grow there. This is the reason why last year I took social media off my phone. Because I just got tired of the time that I was wasting on it and what I was consuming. There's only so many falling videos you can watch in a row before you feel like this can't be edifying twitter just made me angry now i will admit i have tick tock and i need to take that off my phone because it's too often that i'm not doing anything and then now all of a sudden i'm watching dumb videos we need to at least know what we're consuming what are we filling our brains with when we get in the car, when we go on a run, when we sit down at our office, when we have some alone time, when we're doing yard work? What are we consuming? And is what I'm consuming pushing me towards Christ or pulling me away from Christ? So those are the three guiding principles. Anchor your day in Christ, practice the presence of Christ, and then consume what draws you to Christ. If you apply those three things in your life, you will be abiding in Christ. Now, how do we practically do this? I want to look at work, I want to look at home, I want to look at fun, and I want to look at alone. So, at work, how do we practice these principles? Well, one thing that I do, it's the easiest for me in my schedule, is the very first thing I do when I get into the office most days is I pull out my Bible and I read, and then I kneel and I pray. I'm actually lately been thinking I need to switch up that habit, and I'm just saying this for the parents in the room. I have vivid memories in middle school and high school of coming downstairs every morning, and my mom's Bible would be open on the table next to her chair, and there'd be a coffee mug, usually with some lipstick on it. And there was evidence there that she had been spending time in the Word. And that gave me respect for her when she started instructing me on spiritual things. And I don't know what you think it would be like to be my parent, but it wasn't easy. I'll tell you that. But seeing the evidence. Of her dedication to Christ. Gave me respect. And I listened. And so now I've got a daughter. Who's starting to notice things. And I'm going to try to shift. My quiet times back to my office. At home. So that when she gets up. She can see it too. because I have that memory. So parents, if you've got kids growing up in the house, what do you want them to see? Can they see your devotional habits? But for some of us, maybe it makes more sense to have it at work. A very easy way to anchor our day in Christ at work and to practice the presence of Christ at work is to pray before everything. We park. Pray before you get out of the car. Father, remind me that you're with me. Remind me that I'm representing you. Be with me as I go. If you're working from home, when you do whatever you do to tell yourself, now I'm locked in and I'm working, before you do that, pray, Father, be with me today. Carry Christ with you into meetings. Before you go into meetings, pray over the meeting. Before you do the call, pray over the call. Before you write the report, pray over the report. Before you do anything in your work, pray over it. Give it to God. Acknowledge that he is with me and I am with him. And let me just speak especially to the people in the room who lead other people, to the people in the room with direct reports, bosses. It is, I realized it this week, I had not articulated it before, but it's a big goal of mine because we do have, I think, an unusual concentration of leaders in our congregation. If you're a leader and you call grace home, it is my fervent prayer that the people who work for you would say that their life is better because you're in it, because you care about them and you lead them well. So if you're a leader and you're about to have a conversation with a team member, especially if that conversation is hard or potentially negative or has some conflict or it's critical, please pray before that meeting. Pray before they come into your office. Pray before you pick up the phone. Pray and ask for the Spirit to be with you in that conversation. Practice the presence of Christ in your workplace. How do we practice the presence of Christ in our home? Well, I think it's very similar. One thing, right off the bat, is mom, dad, when you're out and you're working and you're coming home, right? And you know, you know what it is. You're going to open that door. There's going to be a whirlwind of noise. Everything is going to need, everybody is going to need everything from you all at once, right away. You know that routine. Stop and pray. I have a friend who says he, when his daughters were young, he used to pull off the side of the road about a mile short of the house. And he would stop and decompress and take off career hat and put on dad hat and pray that God would be with him before he walked in. And once he felt like he was in the right space, he pulled in the driveway. He was present for his children. He was present for his wife. Stop and bring Jesus with you and that peace into the house. Wake up every day. Spend time in God's word and time in prayer there at your home. Ask yourself, and I think this is a conversation that everybody in the church should have. If you live alone, then you consider it on your own. If you live with other people, talk with them, talk with your spouse. And really ask the question, do we have a Christ-centered home? How often is the name Jesus mentioned here? If we have children still living with us, how often do we talk about faith with them? Did they hear us as adults talking about Jesus? One of my favorite things that I see in my house and that I can brag on because she's not here right now is every morning before Lily and I walk out the door to go to school, I take her to school. I don't still attend. Before we go, Jen grabs Lily and she says, let me pray for you, baby. And she prays. And do you know how non-spiritual I am? Sometimes we're running late. And I'm looking at her going like, yo, the Holy Spirit needs to move you to pray faster. I'm wearing sweatpants. I don't want to walk in that school if they're late. I'm so bad. Every morning, she grabs that little girl, she hugs her, and she prays for her. What a gift to kids to do that. Every night, we do a little devotional with the kids before they, in their beds before they go to bed. We sing them songs. I sing them hym truly the center of your home? And if he's not, how can we make it that way? So that when I'm at home, I'm abiding in Christ. How do we abide in Christ with our friends? Listen, I love friends. Friends are super important to me. I love having a good time with friends. I love messing around with friends. It's great. I think friendships are a gift from God. But how do we abide in Christ in those friendships? And listen, this can be tricky because not all of us, not all of our friends are Christian friends. And that's a good thing because I believe that the most effective form of evangelism is friendship. So we should all have friends in our life who don't know Jesus. We should. But we should also have friends in our life that push us towards Jesus. I learned very young, my dad used to say all the time, you show me your friends, I'll show you your future. It's so true. Proverbs says that. It says if you spend your time in the counsel of the wise, you will become wise. If you spend your time in the council of morons, you will become a moron. It's a loose paraphrase. I explain that in the translation guide out there. And we know that research shows that you become the five people you spend the most time around. We know that. So if we are going to abide in Christ, then we're going to need our friends' help. And if we're going to need our friend's help, then we need friends who are abiding in Christ and who push us in our walk with Christ. And here's what can happen sometimes with friends, even Christian friends, is they'll become, and this is what I call them, they'll become yuck-yuck clubs where you just get together and you don't talk about anything that matters. We're just laughing and swapping stories and making fun of people and telling jokes. And everyone's just laughing and giggling the whole time. And listen, I love yuck yuck clubs. I'm the charter member of several of them. They're fantastic. Or other times people get together and all it is is one big juicy gossesh. And if you don't know what that is because you're not as cool as me, they just gossip a lot about other people. They just get together and eventually it's just going to degenerate into, did you hear what so-and-so did? I was disappointed in so-and-so for this. And we just start throwing names around and talking about other people and it's not productive and it's not good and it's not wise. So listen, what I would say to you is this, if your friends never talk about things that matter, change the conversation or get new friends. If the people you spend the most time with never talk about things that matter, have the courage to change the conversation, to introduce new topics, to actually ask them how their marriage and how their spiritual life is going. Have the courage to change the topic. Have the courage to ask a real question amidst the laughter. Have the courage to cut off the gossip and redirect to another place, or, I'm being honest, get new friends. If you look through your landscape of friends and you see that you don't really have anyone there who spiritually encourages you on a regular basis, then truly, maybe your thing this morning is to begin to pray that God would reveal to you some more friends, some new friends that you can grow with. And while we're here, don't forget what I talked about in January when I talked about the importance of community in the middle of the prayer where it says, along with all the saints, and we talked about this idea of sacred spaces. The one or two or three people we have in our life where we can be completely open and completely honest and completely vulnerable. If we want to abide in Christ, we're going to need those spaces. But I do want to encourage you this morning to consider your friendships. Do you carry Jesus into those as well? Do you find them spiritually encouraging? Are they neutral? Do they push you away? We need spaces where we can go for that. And then lastly, how do we abide in Christ when we're alone? This one's a tricky one. I've been told for a long time that your character is who you are when no one is around. And I think when we're alone, this idea of what we consume becomes incredibly important. When you're alone, and I don't know what alone is for you. For me, alone is the family can be upstairs and I can be in the kitchen with earbuds in. I may as well be alone. I'm listening to a book or a podcast or something or when I'm working in the yard. When you have time to yourself, no one else has any input into you, what are you doing? When you go on your runs or your rides or your hikes or your walks, if you're listening to something, what are you listening to? If you're thinking about something, what are you thinking about? When you're in the car, how do you use that time? You're by yourself, how do you use that time? What do you listen to? What do you think about? When do you pray? When it's the end of the day and the house is quiet and you have your own space, and we all need that, what do you consume? What do you watch? What do you play? What do you listen to? What do you read? In the morning, when you wake up, no one else is around. What does your mind go to? What is it that you want to consume? What is it that you should consume? This is where it's really, really important to know what pushes you towards Christ and what pulls you away from Christ. And this is why I'm careful to throw down standards. You should watch these kinds of shows. You should not watch these kinds of shows. These kinds of books. These kinds of books. Whatever it is. Because it's different for everybody. But what I want to encourage in you is this sense. This filter in your heart. That you allow to be triggered with, this isn't really edifying. I don't really think this is what I need to be consuming. And turn it off, or put it down, or go to sleep, or go on a walk. But we need to be thoughtful and not just consume things by default. So if we want to abide in Christ, remember, we anchor our day in Christ. We practice the presence of Christ. We consume what draws us to Christ. We think about how to apply those principles in our work life, in our home life, in our private life, and in our friend life. And then I would simply say this as we wrap up. No one can be 100% on 100% of the time. No one can be 100% on 100% of the time. I've had seasons where I've been radical about this, where I just kind of look at my life and I realize I'm watching junk shows that I don't need to be watching. I'm reading books that aren't bad, but they don't really help me in any way. They don't help me get better. They're not pushing me towards Jesus. Maybe I haven't been having my quiet times like I should. I've stopped. My podcasts are all news. There's nothing spiritually encouraging there. I'm just not consuming anything that's helping me. And I go, oh my gosh. And I do a whole reset. And I just, and I'm just, I'm reading, I'm reading a book, I'm listening to a book, both are spiritually edifying, I'm having good conversations with my friends, I'm reading the Bible every day, I'm praying like I'm supposed to, and all the dead spaces is just spiritual, spiritual, spiritual. And maybe it's just me, I can't go that long doing that. Eventually, I want to know what Dan Levitard thought of the Super Bowl. Like eventually, I just get curious about other stuff. And there absolutely, there absolutely needs to be space for dead time. To just exist. To just rest. And that's fine. We all need that space. But use that space to rejuvenate you so that you're ready to begin pursuing Jesus again when you wake up, again when you get done with work, again when you get done with this. No one can be 100% on with this 100% of the time, but we all have big steps to take. So I hope this morning you've identified at least one or two that you can begin to apply in your life right now and that your day tomorrow will change. And I hope that you will ask, particularly if you have a spouse, is Christ the center of our home? How do we turn that dial a little bit more? How do we make him the center of our home? So I hope that you'll start doing a couple things this week. I'd love to hear stories about what you guys started and how that's worked for you. But I'm going to pray, and then're going to come up and we're going to do one more song together. Father, thank you for this morning. Thank you for this great congregation of folks that love each other so well that I love so much. God, I just pray that if we heard things today that made us go, oh gosh, yeah, I need to do that. God, would you help us do it? Would you help us install some of these practices? It's fine that we know about them, God. But help us not be like the person who looks at himself in the mirror and then forgets what he looks like, hears your word and doesn't obey it. But help us to be the people who obey and to do. And God, would you help us to abide in you? It's in your son's name we ask these things. Amen.