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Good morning, everybody. It's good to see you. My name is Nate. I get to be one of the pastors here. Thanks for being here on this cold February morning on Super Bowl Sunday. I hope everybody's got fun plans, or if you don't care about the Super Bowl at all, I hope you have a nice dinner planned for yourself. This is the third part in our series going through the book of Colossians. And this week, as we approach it, I wanted to approach the text with this kind of idea in mind. We're going to be in Colossians chapter 2 and then on through chapter 3 in some different portions of it. So if you have a Bible, go ahead and turn there. And then if you're at home, please turn there. If you don't have a Bible, there's one in the seat back in front of you. I would also call your attention to the bulletin. The bulletin looks a little bit different this week. There's no place for you to take notes. So note takers, you're going to have to get creative. Instead, I've put a prayer on the bulletin that we're going to pray at the end of the service together. You'll pray silently as I pray it aloud. And by the time we get there, hopefully the prayer makes a lot more sense and is meaningful and is something that you will carry home with you. But we'll talk more about that at the end of the service. If you're watching online, this bulletin is attached to the grace find that you should have received this week. So you can download that if you want to, or you can just email someone on staff and we'll be happy to send it over to you if you find it helpful and want to pray it throughout your week. But as we approach the text this week, I wanted to start here. I'm not sure if any of you have ever tried to eat healthy, okay? By the looks of most of us, this has been an effort at least at some portion of our life, but there have been a lot of times in my life when I have decided that I'm going to begin to eat with some wisdom. I'm going to start to eat well. I'm a person who's had a lot of day one workouts, and I've had a lot of day one diets. Okay, there's more in my future. Maybe tomorrow. Who knows? Not today. It's Super Bowl Sunday. This is not the day to start a diet, but tomorrow is fresh and hope springs eternal. But whenever I decide that I'm going to eat well, right? I'm going to eat responsibly, which is like a rabbit. Whenever I decide I'm going to do that, I feel like I am a person who is at war with myself. I feel like I am two separate people. I am one person who wants to eat well, and I am another person who just loves food so much that he's angered by me who wants to eat well. Because I love food. I don't know about your relationship with food. Mine is probably not healthy. If I know that I'm going to have a certain dinner that night or that we're going somewhere like a restaurant or something like that, I already know what I'm getting and I wake up thinking about it. Like I look forward to it throughout the day. That's how much I love food. For the Super Bowl tonight, we're going to have pigs in a blanket. I'm going to dip them in spicy mustard. I'm going to eat more than I should. I'm already excited about it, okay? That's just how I am about food. So when I decide that I want to eat well, it's really difficult for me. And I don't know about you, but I have certain stumbling blocks. It's pretty easy for me to eat well around the house. I kind of do a good job not snacking when I'm not supposed to. I don't drink the soda and stuff when I'm not supposed to. I drink black coffee and water, and that's pretty much it during the day. That's not very challenging. But what is challenging is when I'm trying to eat well, and my sweet wife on a Friday or Saturday will say, you want to go Chick-fil-A and get a biscuit? Yeah, yeah, I do, okay? I always want to go to Chick-fil-A and get a biscuit. That answer is never no, okay? You ask me, Nate, do you want a biscuit? Yeah, yeah, I do. Yeah, I do. But you just had three. I don't care. You're offering me one. I want another biscuit. I like biscuits in the morning. So that's tough, all right? The other time it's tough is when I go out to eat. Because I'll go out to eat. I'll go to places that I like, and they have food there that I like. And one of the places I think of is Piper's. I go to Piper's because I meet people there for lunch with a lot of regularity. That's kind of my default spot. And they have salads, like I see them on the menu, right? They got grilled chicken and some fruit or some whatever, some balsamic whatever, less delicious thing that they have there. And I know that I need to order it. And I have girded my loins. I'm ready for this choice. And I go in there and I don't even look at the meat. I look at just the salads. I don't look at the other things. But see, here's the thing. This Piper's has one of the best Reuben's in the city. They really do. It's delicious. And that's what I want, right? I want the Reuben. And I've been thinking all day about how I shouldn't have the Reuben. And I've made the decision, I'm going to get the salad. I'm going to eat the thing that I don't want. But then it's like Satan's working against me or God's just giving me a special grace and telling me it's okay. I'm not sure which sign. And the table next to me will receive a piping hot, crispy toasted Reuben. As I'm sitting there trying to muster up the discipline to order my salad. And I look at that Reuben and I look at those fries and I look at that ketchup and the waitress says, what do you have? That! I want that Reuben. I did not want a salad. And I cave, right? So for me to be on a diet is for me to live at war with myself. I bring that up because I think that you'll know that this is true. Those of you who have been a Christian for any amount of time, to be a Christian is to be at war with yourself. To be a Christian, to be a believer, is to know the good you ought to do and yet still struggle to do it. I even think, and this is a sad reality, it should not be the case, and hopefully God can deliver us from this, and hopefully this sermon moves the needle on this a little bit, but I even think that to be a believer is to be constantly disappointed with how spiritually mature you are and how spiritually mature you think you should be by now. Because we know the good things we're supposed to do. We know the kindness we're supposed to show. We know the greed we're not supposed to have and the pride that we're supposed to iron out. And we know all the different things and our hidden sins and the stuff that we look at and whatever it is, the stuff that we consume. We know what we're not supposed to do and we know what we are supposed to do. And we try like heck to be that person, but we are a person who feels at war with ourself because there is the person within us who wants to eat right and there is the person within us who really loves a good Reuben, whatever that might be for you. And they exist at war with each other. I am convinced that to be a believer means to live in a state of tension within yourself of who you know you should be, of who you know God created you to be, of who you know God designed you to be, and yet not being able to walk in that. There's a verse that's super challenging for me where Paul tells us that we should live a life worthy of the calling that we have received. And I don't know about you, but I don't get to the end of too many days, much less weeks, where I look back on that week and I go, yeah, this week I was obedient to that verse. And if we're honest as Christians, it gets tiring to know that that's true. It gets exhausting to constantly fall short. Paul actually describes this tension in one of my favorite passages. It's one of the most human things to me that's written in the Bible, particularly by Paul in Romans chapter 7. In Romans chapter 7, Paul writes specifically about this tension in the Christian life when, in my inner being, but I see in my members another regenerated person as God has rescued my heart and claimed it and one day will whisk me up to heaven. He's given me eternal life and I'm living as a new creature that we're going to talk about more in a minute. I feel in this inner being a desire to live the righteous life that God has called me to live. And yet, also in my body, is a desire to revert back to my old self. It is a desire to revert to who I am without Jesus. It is a desire to indulge the flesh. It is a desire for the things that I used to consume that I know I don't need to consume anymore. That exists within us. And then he exclaims at the end of it, O wretched man that I am, who will deliver me from this body of death? Who will finally give me victory? How will I finally live the life that I'm supposed to live? And so that's where we arrive this morning. In Colossians, is this age-old question that all Christians face, that Francis Schaeffer, an author in the 20th century, framed up in a book entitled, How Should We Then Live? Meaning, in light of the gospel, in light of what we talked about in week one, the picture of Jesus that Paul paints for the Colossians, remember, they're facing pressure from within and without to go back to rules and aestheticism and to be legalistic and add on more rules than what is necessary so that they can live a righteous life, and then pressure from the more liberal part of their community to say none of the rules matter, how we live doesn't matter at all. You have total grace to do whatever it is you want to do. And so Paul, to that pressure, paints a picture of Christ as the apex of history and the apex of hope, as the connection point and nexus between the spiritual realm and the physical realm, how he is the creator God over everything, this majestic picture of Christ. And so the question becomes, how do we live in light of that picture? How do we live in light of the gospel? I am saved. I am a new creature. God has breathed new life into me. I am no longer a slave to sin, as Paul describes in Romans, but now I have this option to move forward with the power of Christ and the Holy Spirit in me and to live a life worthy of the calling that I have received. Now, how do I do it? How do I do it? That's the question that we come to in Colossians. And it should be a question that matters to each and every Christian. Father, how do I live a life worthy of the calling that I've received? How do I grow into spiritual maturity? What do I do practically? How do I live the Christian life? And it's an important question because it dictates how we pursue God. And to this question, I think we often answer it in the same way that we're trained to answer any other question in our life about how we get better at a particular thing. If you want to get better at exercising, what do you need? You need more discipline. You need to wake up. You need to do it. You need to be more disciplined in the way you pursue exercise. If you want to eat better, what do you need to do? You need to be more disciplined. You want to do better at time management. You need more discipline in time management. You want to be more focused. You want to be more productive. You want whatever it is, however it is, you want to grow and be better. What is the fundamental requirement of that pursuit of better? It's discipline. We need to do better. We need to come up with structures and systems that we follow, and I'm going to white knuckle my way to success here. And the most disciplined people within our field, they achieve the most success. The most disciplined people at the gym look the best in a t-shirt. The most disciplined people, when they go out to eat, they have the healthiest hearts. Like discipline is the root to how we accomplish success. And so, because that's true, and so very many areas of our life, even though we could philosophically talk about whether or not that's true, because we think that's true in so many areas of our life, we also just by default apply that to our spiritual life. If I want to be more godly, then I need to be more disciplined. I'm going to set up more rules, more regulations. I'm going to get up at this time. I'm going to do these things. I'm going to be the type of person that is defined by these things. We focus on our behavior and our self-discipline. And I think when we are faced with the question of how do I then live? How do I become the Christian that God has created and designed me to be? I think that in our culture, our default answer is to attempt to white-knuckle discipline our way to godliness. And here's what Paul says about that knee-jerk reaction that all perish as they are used, according to human precepts and teachings. Listen, these have indeed an appearance of wisdom and promoting self- we be the people that God asks us to be? And their response, it seems, at least initially, was white-knuckle discipline, aestheticism, following the rules. The better you follow the rules, the more God loves you. It's a very simple exchange. That's what legalism says. And so they're just going to be try-hards. They're just going to be do-betters. That's just what they're going to do. And to help them try really hard, they set up all these rules and parameters around their life. And they say, whoever can follow these rules the best is the greatest Christian. But Paul says, that's fine. Set up your rules. Have all your standards. Set the boundaries really far away from the actual boundary. He says, but all those rules and all that, the way that it looks, the way that you're living, just dotting all the T's and crossing all the I's and really, really, really having these policies in life that keep you on the straight and narrow. Paul says, yeah, those have the appearance of wisdom. And I would add in our vernacular, godliness, but they do nothing. They do nothing to stop the indulgence of the flesh that is the reason for the sinning that we need the rules for. For instance, let's say that what you struggle with is pride. Okay, I'm having to make some assumptions here because I don't have the struggle, but if you do, let's say that something that you struggle with is pride and you go, you know what, God, I gotta get rid of this. I gotta be better. I'm gonna be better at being more humble. I'm gonna try to push out my pride. And so we take intentional steps. Maybe we're people who will maybe kind of fish for compliments sometime, or maybe we'll ask people what they thought about something. And really all we want them to do is tell them that we did a good job or that we're good at this or that we're good at that. And there's ways, if you're a prideful person, there are ways to go through your life and get the people in your life to affirm you. And if you are this person, you're exhausting, okay? I've exhausted others. I say that as a friend. That's not a good road to walk. But let's say that you're a prideful person, and so you need other people to affirm you all the time and the things that you're good at, but you realize in light of the gospel and in light of God's word that pride is not good, and so we need to iron this out of our life. So we go, I'm not going to do that anymore. I'm not going to ask other people for compliments. I'm not going to ask other people to affirm me. I'm not going to seek my value in other places. And then once you get really good at that and you haven't done that in a couple of weeks and you still feel good about yourself, then what do you do? Boy, I am proud of myself for not needing other people to tell me I'm good. Now we're taking pride in a new thing. What Paul says is there is this part of our flesh that is going to manifest negative things in our life, pride, greed, selfishness, lust, whatever it is. And we can put parameters around those things, but they're going to leak out somewhere. You can follow whatever rules you want to follow. You can white knuckle yourself into some good discipline. I've seen some people who can keep themselves on the straight and narrow for years, but those negative traits that exist within you, those things are going to leak out somewhere else. And I know this because I've met a lot of people who can follow the rules really well, and they're jerks. It's just their flesh leaking out in other ways. So what Paul says is we cannot white knuckle our way to godliness. Discipline, self-control, more rules, more standards. Those do not get us to spiritual maturity. Those do not put us in a place where we can live a life worthy of the calling that we have received. That's not the answer. In chapter 3, thankfully, I believe that he gives us the answer. And I think it's a refreshing one. Because when we try to get to godliness by white-knuckle discipline, just I'm going to be a try-hard, I'm going to be a do-better, what happens is not good. Because if you have ever in your life decided, yeah, I'm going to be a better Christian, and I'm going to do it by taking these steps. I'm going to do it by instilling these standards in my life. I'm going to do it by my own effort and me trying hard. And maybe we pray a prayer, God, I am never going to do this again. God, I am always going to do this moving forward. God, I swear that that will never be a part of my life again. And we make these big promises and we make these big claims. And listen, we mean them. But here's what I know about you. If you've ever promised God that you will never or that you will always, then you have failed. That's what I know about you. If we ever have promised God, I will never do blank. I will always do blank, we have failed in those promises because we can't keep those commitments, because we're broken. Because of Romans 7, the things that I do not want to do, I do, because it's part of our nature to fail in that way. And because that's true, after we make up our mind enough times that God, I'm never going to, or God, I'm always going to, and then we fail, we get to a place where either we just feel like this broken, wretched Christian, and we're thinking, God, I'll never be good enough for you. I don't think I'll ever be good enough for you. Just please let me be saved. Just please let me just hang on until I get to the end of my life. Please usher me into heaven. I know I'll never be who I'm supposed to be. I know that I can't pursue those things, but please just accept me as I am. And we kind of just live this broken down, hopeless Christian life where we feel like we're limping our way to heaven. Or worse than that, we try so hard and we fail so many times that we get so tired of trying that we can't find it within ourselves to do it anymore. And then we conclude, God, your word says that I'm a new creature. Your word says that you will help me. Your word says that you will empower me. And yet I fail over and over and over again. So I can only conclude that you don't keep your word. And then we just wander away from the faith and we give up on God because righteousness is too hard because we've only ever tried it by ourself and we've never invited God in in the way that he needs to be invited in, and our white-knuckle disciplining to try to be better and more godly to pursue the faith that we want so earnestly ends up costing us our faith. So that's not the way. We find the way in Colossians 3. And I would sum it up like this. We grow to maturity by focusing on being rather than behaving. We grow to maturity by focusing on being rather than behaving, by focusing on who we are rather than how we behave. And here's what I mean. In this chapter, we're going to see this idea introduced here by Paul, but introduced in plenty of other places by Paul in the New Testament, of the old and the new. The old you and the new you. The old you is who you were without Jesus. The new you is who you are with Jesus. The old you, the Bible says, was a slave to sin. I had no choice but to do things that displeased God. I had no chance at all. But the new you infused with Jesus and the power of the Holy Spirit does have the chance every day when you wake up to walk that day according to the life that God has called you to. We have a chance when we wake up to live today in honoring God and actually finish the day living a life worthy of the calling that we have received that day. We've got a chance. There's a new us. And the new us desperately wants to please God. And so this is what Paul says about old self and new self in Colossians chapter three. This is what he says about being versus behaving. Look at Colossians chapter three, verses five through eight first. Put to death, Paul says, therefore, what is earthly in you? Sexual immorality, impurity, passion, evil desires, and covetousness, which is idol rules. But here's what we need to do. We need to put to death these things, sexual immorality, impurity, passion, evil desires, covetousness, anger, slander, all these things. And at first, it sounds like that's a little bit in tension with what he just said. He said, if you want to be godly, if you want to be who God created you to be, it's not about following the rules. It has an appearance of wisdom, but that's not really helping any indulgence of the flesh. And then the very next chapter over, he's saying, put to death these things, which feels like rules and standards that he's giving us, except he's not giving us behaviors. He's telling us to put things to death. Remember how I said that if you follow rules, if you're trying to break yourself of pridefulness and you put rules around your pridefulness and then it just leaks out and into another area of your life. Jesus is, Paul is acknowledging that. See, it's not about trying to follow the rules because those unhealthy things just leak into other portions of your life. It's about actually putting the pride to death. It's about actually putting greed and lust to death in your heart so that in your heart there is no place for them to dwell. And if there is no place for them to dwell, then they will not produce the behaviors that you're trying so desperately to control. So the first thing is to acknowledge that we don't need to put parameters around our old self. We need to put our old self to death. And we do this by focusing on being. How do we put those things to death? This is what Paul says in Colossians 3. I'm going to read verses 12 through 17. Put on then as God's chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, bearing with one another. And if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other as the Lord has forgiven you. So you also must forgive. And above all these, put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony. And let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in one body, and be thankful. Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly, teaching and admonishing one another in all wisdom, singing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs with thankfulness in your hearts to God. And whatever you do, in word or deed, we live a life worthy of the calling that we have received? In the phrasing of Hebrews 12, verse 1, What the world do I live the life that you want me to live? I think what Jesus would say is, look at me. Look at me. Look at me. Jesus, what rules should I follow in this new life that you've called me to? How do I run the race that you've set before me? Jesus says, just look at me. Just keep your eyes on Christ. This is actually in complete harmony with Romans 12 that tells us that we should run the race and that we should throw off the sin and the weight that so easily entangles us by, in verse 2, focusing your eyes on Christ, the founder and perfecter of your faith. So how do we live the life that God calls us to live? We daily make ourselves aware of Christ's love for us. We daily make ourselves aware of what God has done for us. If we will daily reflect on the fact that Jesus in heavenly form condescended and took on flesh and lived amongst us for 33 years and put up with everything that we have to offer and continues to walk with us and continues to love us and continues to sit at the right hand of the Father and intercedes for you as an individual, leans into God's ears and says, she's good. She's with me. She loves you, Father. I died for her. If we will let that reality wash over us daily, how could we not put to death the pride that exists in us by walking in humility at the love of God that we receive? If we are struggling with anger towards other people and frustration and impatience, how is it possible to spend a portion of your day every day focusing on the reality of God's patience with you? Focusing on the reality that as many times as you've said, God, I will never, or God, I will always, and then you failed, that God has been right there to help you clean up the mess every time. How can we not grow in forgiveness of others when we constantly remind ourselves of how forgiven we are? How can we not grow in patience to others when we constantly are focused on the patience that God has to us? If we will focus on God's overwhelming grace, that he died for us while we were still sinners, that he pursues us while we run away from him, that even though we fail him over and over again, he continues to love us with a reckless love, that God loves us while we were unlovely, that God sees us fully and knows us completely and still loves us unconditionally. If we let those things wash over us every day, how could we not look at other people and be more loving and patient towards them in light of how loving and patient God is towards us? Do you understand that these things that we clothe ourself with in Colossians 12 through 17 necessarily put to death our old self that Paul tells us to rid ourself of. So if we want to get rid of malice, what do we do? We focus on Christ. If we want to get rid of pride, do we put parameters around our pride? No, we focus on Jesus and who he is and realize that we have no right to our pride. If we want to be more gracious people, what do we do? We focus on Jesus' grace to us. Say, Jesus, how in the world do I live the life that you call me to live? Oh, wretched man that I am, who will deliver me from this body of death? And Jesus says, focus on me. Focus on me. So I would tell you, if you are a Christian who lives at war with yourself, you do not have a discipline issue, you have a focus issue. If you are someone who struggles with greed, you don't have a greed issue. You have a focus issue. If we try to be more godly and more pleasing to him by focusing on the behaviors that we need to do better, we will fail over and over and over again. But if we can put our focus on Christ, the founder and perfecter of our faith and let his grace and goodness and mercy and love wash over us daily, then those things will necessarily put to death the very root of the behaviors that we do not like. So again, if we are struggling in our walk with God, we do not have a discipline issue. We do not have a sin issue. We have a focus issue. We need to focus our eyes on Christ, the founder and perfecter of our faith. We need to pursue him more with more urgency. We need to let the truths of how he loves us wash over us more. And those will necessarily put to death the elements of our character that we do not like, that produce the behaviors that we do not want to do. You can think of it this way. Our old self cannot survive where our new self thrives. Our problem is we have a new self and we have an old self and we feed them both the same amount of food. We give in to them both equally. And so they both just exist in this tension and if we ever want to put to death our old self, then our new self has to thrive. And our new self thrives by clothing ourselves in the characteristics of Christ and we clothe ourselves in those characteristics by focusing him and daily letting his goodness wash over us. So it's very simple. How should we then live? How do we get to the end of a single day? Living a life worthy of the calling that we have received that day? By focusing our eyes on Jesus on that day. By looking at him that day. And letting everything else fade away and take care of itself. Because it's that simple, and because that's what we need to do, I wrote a prayer for us as a church. In a few minutes, I'm going to read it and pray it over us as a church and invite you to read it along with me. If you find it helpful, I would love to invite you to put this prayer somewhere where you can see it, where this is a thing that you will pray daily. Put it on your desk, or in your car, or on your mirror. If this is helpful to you, I would encourage you to pray this every day until it's not helpful to you, until the principles of this prayer are so ingrained in you that it is part of your daily prayer. But if we want to live a life as Christians that we are called to live, then I am convinced that this needs to be a fundamental prayer that we focus on very regularly. Not necessarily the words that I've chosen here, but the ethos and the attitude and the posture that's presented in this prayer and the acknowledgments of the truths that are in this prayer that are from Colossians chapter three and other portions of scripture as we seek to live the life that God calls us to live. So I'm gonna pray this over us and invite you to pray it along with me. Father, I know I am your child and that in you I am a new creation. Though I know this, I struggle to believe it. Because I struggle to believe, I struggle to walk as you would have me walk. So Father, help me learn to walk in this new self. As I put on the new self, I ask that you would help me see others through your eyes and so clothe me in your compassion. Help me regard others as your beloved children as you clothe me in your kindness. Remind me of the way you love me when I am unlovely in order that I might humbly love others in the way I am loved. Remind me today, Father, of who I am in you. As you clothe me in these things, let them put to death in me the remnants of my old self. Let your humility drive out my impatience, my anger, and my pride. Let your compassion and kindness suffocate my jealous and selfish heart. Let the way you see me overshadow and obscure the way I see myself. Help's name, Father. Amen.
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Well, good morning. It's good to see everybody. My name is Nate. I get to be the pastor here as just a little point of order. If you received a bulletin when you came in and you're someone who fills out the notes, I would direct you to the back of the bulletin. In the middle of the notes is a point that starts out. I think the local church is the blank thing to which we are all called. You can cross that out. Okay, I'm not going to get to that. The word there was bigger, so if you really just want to fill it in, there you go. But we're not going to include that. So I don't want to get to that point of the notes and you guys think, oh, no, he forgot it. No, I didn't. I'm leaving it out on purpose. Also, some of you have asked, Nate, why are you wearing your Crocs? Do you have a gout flare-up? No, jerks. I know that you would love that, but I did not. I did not. I also, before I'm telling you why I'm wearing them, have promised my sweet wife that I would communicate to you that she loathes them. They are the least favorite thing of hers that I own, and it is to her great dismay that I continue to wear them every day. I'm wearing these because these are my friend's shoes. These are the shoes that you only see when I am your friend. If you come to my house, and I knew you were coming, if you come to my house and I didn't know you were coming, come on, man, what are you doing? But if I do know you're coming and I'm still by choice wearing these, it's because I'm totally comfortable with you and we're friends. If you invite me over and I'm wearing sweats and Crocs, it's because we're pals, all right? Only my close friends see these because they are shameful. And when I come to church early, I get here early on Sunday mornings, and usually I just throw these on just to be comfortable until I need to put on my church shoes, my preaching shoes. And as I was pacing, thinking through what I was saying this morning, I just realized that what I'm going to say to you this morning is hard. It's hard for me to say. It's going to be hard for some of y'all to hear. And as I say it, I want these to remind me and you that I'm coming to you as a friend. I'm saying these things to you because I love you. Because I feel like Grace is collectively my pal. And so I want you to know up front that I have been praying this week and this morning for courage and gentleness. And so these Crocs are a little bit more gentle than my preaching boots. So I'm wearing these today. Years ago, there was a show called 24. I don't know if you guys have ever seen it. If you have, your life is better for it. But 24 was released, I don't know if you remember this, right on the cusp of like DVD series and then live series. For those of you, I don't know how young you have to be to appreciate series that are on DVDs, but we used to buy whole volumes of series that now you get on Netflix. But 24 is right on the cusp of that. And so when I heard about it, my friends were watching it and they were like a couple seasons in, I think they were on season four. And they had this tradition of every Monday night, they would go over to my one friend's house and they would all watch it with rapt attention and then talk about it during the commercials. And then when it started again, total silence and they were very committed to it. And then they would kind of talk about the episode afterwards. And I really wanted to go to this. I was having serious FOMO, which for old people, that's fear of missing out. I was having some serious FOMO of my friends are having this fun and I can't have this fun because I'm not caught up on the series. So I tracked down the DVDs and got caught up on the series. And I don't know if any of you have had this experience. Raise your hand if you watch 24 on DVD. Okay, you are my friends and you know what I'm talking about. The end of the episode always, without fail, ends on a cliffhanger. And then there's that countdown, the beep, boop, beep, boop. And you're like, no, I got to know what happens to Jack. So then if you're watching the DVD series, it's like play next episode. Yes, of course. And you play the next episode and you just binge that thing. This is when binging started. And it was so satisfying to be able to watch. And this was, let's see, I was probably 19 or 20. So I could watch an ungodly amount of uninterrupted TV at a time. And I mean the word ungodly because it was not spiritual to do what I was doing, but I could watch a ton at one time. And so you power through these seasons, man. And I got through them and I got to go watch with my friend. Now this is the big night. I get to go to my friend's house. There's like 15, 20 of us there. This is great. I'm going to consume this content this way. And as I was doing it, I was like, this stinks because it ended. First of all, I had to watch commercials. That's a bummer. I don't want to watch commercials. I'm into the story. I don't want to hear about Claritin again. And then it ends. There's the beeps. And it's like, let's watch the next episode, guys. And you can't. You've got to wait a whole week. And by the time the next week rolled around, I really wasn't very much into it. And I realized within a couple of weeks, you know what? I don't really like consuming this this way. I like it better on the DVDs. So I waited and just watched it all at once on the DVDs. And I bring that up because this is when content really began to make it very clear that it was a product and we are the consumers. We can watch whatever we want to watch. We have all kinds of streaming services. We have everything available at the tip of our fingers. We can choose the content that we want to watch whenever we want to watch it. This is 24 to me illustrates when it became very clear in our culture that there's all kinds of content out there that we can consume when we want it, where we want it, and when we actually have a desire for it. When we think it's what's going to be best for us, when we feel like it's what we want in the moment, it's right there and we can consume it. I'm bringing that up because I feel like I've seen church become that for many of us too. I feel like in Christian culture, in church people, and then most pointedly at grace, I have watched a slide over the years that the pandemic has accelerated where we are now in ways consumers of church. Church, to some of us, in our mindset and in our families, has become a product that we consume. Sunday morning is something that if I have time, I'll go. If we don't have other plans, I'll attend. If there's not just one more inconsequential thing, and when I say inconsequential, I mean something that we allow to take Sunday morning away from us that isn't gonna matter one little bit in 20 years, then we'll just do that thing and I'll catch up with church during the week. I'll watch it on Tuesday. I'll binge it. I'll listen to the whole series. And it's not easy or fun to say this because normally when I come to you as the church and I say convicting things, I'm right there with you. I always put myself first and say, this is my conviction, join me in it if it applies. Well, this one's different because I get paid to do this. I don't have the perspective that church partners have. But I do have the perspective of a pastor. And I can tell you what I see from my perspective. And what I see from my perspective, as someone who leads a church, as someone who I think is pretty tapped into Christian culture, as someone who talks to other pastors regularly, I see a slide in our culture towards consumerism as it relates to churches. That for many of us, church has become a commodity or a product that I will include in my life when and where I want to, when and how I want to. And I know that none of us would cop to that out loud. None of us would say, yeah, yeah, I mean, I'm a consumer, church is the product, that's how it is. But in our practices and in our patterns, that's what we make it. I'll get to it when I can. I'll include it when I want to. I'll catch up with it on my jog. Revelation really is not very interesting of a series for me. I'll catch it at Christmas. Or, Revelation is super interesting to me. I'm going to totally pay attention to this one. Last one, I wasn't really there for it. I've seen us become consumers in the way that we volunteer, which is less and less, which is a good indicator that in my mind, church exists for me to make my life better. It's a product that's there for me to grab and to consume when I want it. And this is something that I have seen and noticed for several months. And something that I've wanted to put in front of you for several months. But I didn't know the best way to do it. I didn't know how. And I wanted to be really sure when I did it. Because I know that I'm stepping on toes right now. And here's how I've been complicit in it. Is I've allowed that mindset to reduce my role to a producer of content. There are many a week in the last two years when I viewed my role as literally nothing more than just giving you something worth consuming on a Sunday morning and forgetting about the pastoring and the leading that has to happen during the week. I have been complicit in reducing my own role as the pastor of a church to simply producing content that's good for you that you'll choose to consume again. And I'm just, I'm telling you guys, we're wrong about that. It is a dangerous thing when church gets reduced to a commodity to consume. And I'm convinced that that's true and that it's right and good for me to take a Sunday morning and talk about it and that it's worth stepping on some toes because Jesus's attitude towards the church is so vastly different than the attitude of someone who consumes the church. Jesus didn't for one second think that the church was a commodity to be consumed. Jesus for one second was not interested in putting out a product that people would want to come back to. He wasn't interested at all in commodifying and making us comfortable in the way we choose to consume his body. The New Testament does not talk about the church as something to be consumed. It does not talk about the church as if it's something that's optional for us, that we can include in our life when we feel like it, that we can include in our life when we feel like we have time or effort or energy or space. And so for me as a pastor to watch this slide in my church and say nothing about it is a dereliction of duty. It is irresponsible. So we've got to talk about it. Again, we've got to talk about it because as I thought about communicating this idea this week and what passage to use, I was thinking through the New Testament and how the church is talked about and it dawned on me, there's not like a single passage to use because the whole New Testament is about the local church. The whole New Testament assumes that you are a part of the local church. The New Testament teaches us that the moment you get saved, that when you accept Christ as your Savior, that you are now a member of the big C universal church. And it is incumbent upon you to express that membership within the body of the local church. The one book, the biggest portion of the New Testament that's written to an individual is written to a guy named Theophilus by Luke, probably on behalf of Peter. And he writes to Theophilus so that he can understand who Jesus was and what he came to do, which is to begin the local church. The one big major book that's written to an individual to explain things in the New Testament is written so that that individual could understand the local church and how it came about. Then Paul writes letters to churches. And every directive in the Bible that's given is given to us communally. There is nothing, nothing about individual spirituality in here. It all, the whole thing, cover to cover, assumes that you know and understand that you are functioning within a body. That you are functioning within the local church. And so it's difficult to pinpoint one place where this is clarified because it's assumed all throughout the New Testament. And I don't know if you've ever thought of this, but do you realize, and I believe this with all my heart, that the local church, this expression of grace that we sit in this morning, is the reason that Jesus stayed some extra years to do ministry? I don't know if you've ever wondered this, but Jesus was 33 when he was crucified. If all he came to do, if all of his marching orders were to become flesh, live a perfect life, die for the sins of the world, why didn't he just get crucified at 30? Or 25? Or 17? What was he doing? Hanging around, putting up with us? He was building the church. He was training the leaders. He was preparing the world for his kingdom. Jesus stayed those extra years and put up with us so that he could call the disciples to him and train them and show them. He taught them how to teach. He taught them how to perform miracles. He taught them how to cast out demons. He taught them how to lead. He taught them how to love. He showed them how to do ministry to one another. And then he died. And then he came back and he left. And when he left, he said, now go do all the things that I've been showing you to the ends of the earth. Go make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. He said, go and do what I told you to do. And how did they respond to that? They huddled up in Jerusalem. And they said, what do we do? And then they got the gift of the Holy Spirit and they started a church, man. And its numbers grew day by day. Acts 2, 42 through 47, you can find it there. And then the rest of the book of Acts is about the disciples' effort to go and to plant more local churches. All of Paul's life was dedicated to planting local churches. When Jesus left and said, you, I've given you the keys to the kingdom. I've spent these years and I've trained you and now I'm going to leave and you've got the Holy Spirit. Go do my ministry. What did lost and broken world, and there is no plan B. That's not my idea. I stole that from another pastor. I don't remember who. But the local church, this expression, this Grace Raleigh is God's plan to reach this community. And there's no plan B. We have got to do our part. We are a part of God's divine strategy, of God's divine plan. This is not something to be flippantly participated in. That's not the point. There's something bigger going on here. The New Testament teaches us that we are the body of Christ. 1 Corinthians chapter 12. We're the body of Christ. We are his different members. We're going to talk more about this next week. But the New Testament also preaches this. And this was one of the more convicting things to think about this week as I think about our attitude with how we approach church. It is admittedly an odd passage to land on for the sermon this morning, but it's Ephesians chapter 5, verses 25 through 32. This is a marriage roles passage. This is usually talked about in weddings. And when we read it, that's where our mind goes. And one day, hopefully sooner than later, I would love to walk through this passage with you as a church body and walk you through kind of how my understanding of this passage has changed over the years. But this is not what I want us to highlight this morning. As I read it to you and you read along with me, I want you guys to pay attention to the relationship between Jesus and the local church. I want you to notice the dynamic that's going on there, and then we're going to talk about it just a little bit. Ephesians chapter 5, beginning in verse 25. He says this in 1 Corinthians chapter 1. and cherishes it just as Jesus does the church because we are members of his body. Therefore, a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife and the two shall become one flesh. This mystery is profound and I am saying that it refers to Christ and the church. The church, Christians, we are the bride of Christ. That is our divine identity. We are the body that he came and died for. We are the body that he's going to come back and rescue. We are the body that he intentionally started. We are the body that was prophesied about in the Old Testament. We are the love of Jesus's life. We are the bride of Christ. And what I'm saying to you this morning is being Christ's bride should be wholly consuming, not flippantly consumed. Being the very bride of Christ should be an identity that is wholly consuming to us, not flippantly consumed. Nothing about that passage and nothing about that role says to us that there's any space whatsoever to simply be consumers of the product that church puts out. No, we are called to be a part of what the church is doing. This is where the whole idea of this series came from when I was thinking about it last fall, is this idea of doing what I can to transition us from sliding towards consumerism and push us back towards being consumed. The church was not created for us to consume it. It was created so that it could consume you. It was created for your whole devotion. It was created for you to be all in. It was created to give you a new life completely separate from your old life and give you something bigger to be a part of that we all long for. Being the bride of Christ deserves our full attention. It deserves our fanaticism. It deserves to consume us. To drive this home just a little bit, I want you to think about something with me. What would your marriage look like if you decide that you were simply going to be a consumer of it? What would my marriage with Jen look like if I decided, you know what, I know she wants to talk about her day-to-day, but I'm not really feeling it. I don't really want to do that. I want to watch football. And also, I've never done this. What would it look like if all the time my interactions with her, I only thought about, well, how does this benefit me? Is this something that I really want to do right now? Why don't I just schedule something over what's happening? What would it look like if in our marriages we simply became consumers and when we were asked to volunteer our time to make the house better, we said, what's in it for me? What are you gonna do if I clean clean the garage? You make meatloaf? All right, I'll clean it. How dead would our marriages be if we became consumers within them? And we saw our marriage as something that just produced a product that was there for me to consume if I wanted it or not. If that analogy holds true, and Ephesians tells me that it does, is it any wonder why some of us just don't feel like our spiritual life is clicking like it should be? Is it any wonder why we just don't feel like we're in sync with God? Is it possible that maybe we don't feel a spiritual vibrancy in our life because we've reduced the things of God to things to be consumed to improve our life when we feel like we need them? You know, it's funny, and it's worth mentioning. Over my years as a pastor, and Grayson at previous church, I've sat down with parents of teenagers, and they've said, we just can't get our kid to come to youth group, and we don't know what to do. And I can't say it, but I think it. Well, if you want to do anything right now, you need to get in the time machine and go back 10 years and quit treating the church like it's something to be consumed for you. You have modeled this method of consumption to your children for 10 years and now is it any wonder that when they get to make their own choices, they're consumers too? Is it any wonder that maybe we don't feel as close to God as we could when we don't treat the things of God as they deserve to be treated. I thought of this as well. Paul is at the end of his ministry and he's writing a letter to Timothy. It's one of the few things written to an individual in the New Testament. And guess what? It's about how to lead the local church. Anyways. In already being poured out as a drink offering. And the time of my departure has come. I have fought the good fight. I have finished the race. I have kept the faith. What a remarkable statement to make. Now I'm about to ask you a question. It's an unfair question. It's a gotcha question. And I'm admitting that up front. So this isn't to make anyone feel bad. This is just to help you think along with me, okay? Did any of us on December 31st, a few days ago, kneel and pray and say, God, thank you for 2021. I was poured out for you like a drink offering. Now, listen, you may have gotten to the end of 2021 and felt like you were poured out like a drink offering. We may have gotten to the end of that year and said, I got nothing left. But were you poured out for the right things? Were you poured out for the things of God? Were you poured out because you were consumed with your identity as the bride of Christ? So, either you're just mad at me and you want the sermon to be over. I get that. Or you're with me and you're okay. I want to be all in. I want to be consumed by the church. What do I do? Well, the very simple answer is this. You give of your time, talents, and treasures. A very simple answer to think about how can I be consumed by the local church is to give of your time, talents, and treasures. And as I was prepping this sermon, I lamented that when I got to this point in the sermon, I've been preaching for too long to really adequately do justice to what that means to give of our time, talents, and treasures. And then it occurred to me, dude, you're in charge of the series. You can do whatever you want. So next week, we're going to talk about that in detail. We're going to come back. Those of you who remain with us are going to come back and we'll go, here's how we can be all in together. Here's what it means and looks like to give of our time, talents, and treasures. But for this morning and for 2022, this is the message and the challenge that I wanted to issue to us as a church. If you're at Grace, be all in. If you're here, mean it with everything you got. You'll notice through this whole sermon, I've not talked about grace as far as what God calls us to. I've talked about the local church. And so I say this with all humility and candor. If you can't be all in at grace because you're not all about what's happening here, that's fine. There are a lot of churches. And with only kindness and love in my heart, I'm admonishing you that if grace isn't it for you, find a church you can be fanatical about. Find a church that you love what's going on there. Find a church that you can be all in, and that you can be consumed by, and you want to pour yourself out for. I hope that's grace, and I hope that what we're doing here is something that matters deeply to you. But if it's not, as just your friend, as a pastor, as a Christian, I'm telling you, we need to be consumed by the local church. So find one to consume you. And this is why I think it's so important to preach this message. And why I wanted to do it at the beginning of this year. Because I know that the cloud of the pandemic still looms over our culture. But I've got to believe that the sun's going to break sometime soon. And I don't want to tread water in 2022. I don't want to just cling on and try to exist this year as a church. I am praying and hoping that Jesus will eagerly and earnestly move in this place. I want to see Jesus show up this year. I want to see children fill that baptistry. I want to just dunk them and I want their friends to be in here celebrating it with them. I want to baptize you guys. I want to see your friends and your family and your coworkers begin to come to church with you and for you to experience the joy of watching them move into a faith because God used you in their life. I want to see you guys take steps of obedience that are far beyond what you thought you would be capable of sacrificing before. I want to see a church with their hair lit on fire for Jesus and begging him every week that his kingdom would come here and that he would move here and that he would do great things here. And that starts with our individual decision to be consumed by the body of Christ and by the identity of being his bride, and then it culminates in a corporate culture of pursuing him and of prizing him and of doing the things of Jesus because we love him and because it's our identity and because we're consumed by him. I don't want to tread water anymore. I want to move. I want to do ministry. I want to see salvations. I want to see people come to know Jesus. I want to see marriages rescued. I want to see children discipled. I want to see hurt people cared for. I want to see people prayed for. I want to see small groups blossom and multiply. I want to see discipleship happen intentionally. I want to see the great friendships that God has planted in this church do more than just make us feel good about ourselves, but point us back towards our Father and enhance our spiritual walks. And how can any, and here, you're all looking at me and I know that you want that too. And how can it happen if we're consumers? If we continue to just slide towards thinking of church as a commodity to be consumed? It can only happen if we say, here I am, Lord, and allow ourselves to be consumed for His purposes. So if you're at grace, be all in. And listen, I say that knowing and being humbled by the fact that we have a bunch of people who are all in. I know that we do. I'm humbled by your service every week. And we have people who have watched online faithfully for two years who simply have health issues that will not allow them to come and be a part of us. And I know you're all in. I know it. And so my prayer has been that the Holy Spirit would be whispering in each of your ears. And if you are someone who is all in, and if you are someone who has been consumed by the local church, that the Holy Spirit would be whispering into your ear right now, and he would be telling you, hey, this is not for you. This is to bring you some help. You don't need to feel convicted by this. Similarly, my prayer for the rest of us is that the Holy Spirit would whisper to us too. And he would be telling you right now how you need to listen. You need to hear this. For the sake of your marriage and your kids, you need to hear this. For the sake of your anxiety and your peace and your joy and your angst, you need to hear this. For the sake of being swept up and knowing how much I love you and experiencing my goodness as being part of a kingdom, part of my kingdom on earth before eternity, you need to hear this. So next week, we're going to come back and we're going to talk about what it looks like to be all in. I hope that if the Holy Spirit is telling you right now, hey, this is not you, that you will pray with me this week. For those to whom it may apply a little more. If the Holy Spirit is talking to you right now and telling you that you need to listen, I pray that you will. And if any of you are mad at me, my door is open. I'd love to chat. But next week, we're moving forward with who we got and we're gonna do some cool things this year. I believe it with all my heart. Let's pray. Father, thank you for the church. Thank you that we are invited to participate in it. Thank you for the way that it wraps its arms around us. Thank you for the way that it is your presence in our life. Thank you for how it trains our children. Thank you for how it strengthens our marriage. Thank you for how it points us towards you. God, we pray that grace would be the church that you want it to be. We pray that we would be consumed by building your kingdom here. We pray that we would understand in our bones what it means more and more to be your bride and to be your body. God, if I've said clumsy things, I just pray that you would grant grace and forgiveness where it's needed. God, we offer you ourselves. We offer you this place. We thank you for creating it. And we just ask that you would give us the faith and courage to serve you and to be consumed by you as we move through this year. It's in your son's name we ask. Amen.
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Good morning, everyone. My name is Kyle. I am the student pastor here at Grace, and I'm so excited to once again be able to be up in front of you getting to preach. I hope you had an awesome Christmas. I hope you had an awesome New Year. Shout out to everyone who's in the building right now. It's January 2nd. We are on the back of the other side of two pretty big holidays. So the fact that you're here, even though it's quite icky outside, shout out to you. But also, good morning or good whatever time of day it is that you may be watching online, whether it's live or whether you're watching it sometime in the future, or everyone in here who loves it so much that you're going to go back and watch it later on. Shout out to you as well. But it's also particularly exciting this morning because we're kicking off a new series that we are calling Consumed, and the ultimate goal is to take a look at where in our lives we might be able to transition from being consumers to being consumed. And so this morning, I have been tasked with diving into what might it look like for our lives and our hearts to be consumed by Christ. Now that sounds like a very easy topic to preach on because it's like, hey, that's kind of the point, Kyle. But I felt myself a bit overwhelmed by this because as I take a look back and as I was thinking through this, what I knew was this, that the last series that we just did was a Christmas series. The entire goal of our Christmas series all through December was to take a look at Jesus and to make much of what Jesus came on earth to do. We celebrated for four weeks or however many weeks or however many Sundays we had, literally going through and talking about, look at this Jesus who came down from heaven to earth. And we celebrate the fact that he came to earth for us. That ultimately his goal and his mission was to live a perfect life as a human and eventually take and bear a cross, dying to put our sin to death. Later being raised to life, signifying that as our sin has been put to death, that death will not be the end of us, just like it was not the end for him. And as he's raised to life, signifying that one day we will be raised into eternity, into heaven. That as we come to the end of our days on earth, that that is not the end, but instead, just as Jesus was, we will be lifted up into eternity. And so that's a lot of really good news to be talking about. That's a really great way to talk about Jesus if I want to talk about being consumed with Jesus. But we just did it for an entire month. Not only that, but if you look even further, it's like, okay, let's look at a different picture of Jesus. Well, here's another picture of Jesus as we went through Revelation. And in Revelation, the ultimate goal of Revelation is as much as it is to learn and to gain knowledge about what does all of this mean, ultimately the purpose is to look and to see how unbelievable, how incredible our God is and how incredible Jesus is. It was to make much of and to bring as much glory as possible to Jesus. That not only in the past was Jesus this human who made himself like us in order to save us, but in the end, ultimately, he becomes this great and mighty and glorious warrior who is coming down to, as Nate likes to say, to wreck shop, to make the sad things untrue, to make the wrong things right, all of those things, that is another picture of Jesus that might be able to go, hey, we should be consumed by this Jesus. This Jesus is awesome. This Jesus of eternity that one day he's going to come down and he's going to get his people. And even if we don't get to experience that from heaven, ultimately at the end of our days, we look forward to eternity where we get to meet that Jesus and be in the presence of that Jesus. And so basically for the past like two or three months, we have been going through the premise of uniting with Christ, of making much of Christ, of giving pretty good descriptions as to why we should be consumed with Jesus. And so here I am sitting and I'm like, what in the world am I supposed to be talking about this morning that is at least anything different than what we've been doing for the last 10 weeks? Well, as I was sitting and working on my sermon and tasked to do so, I was also working on a devotional. I was writing a little devotion and it was actually for something for grace. So get excited. I'm not going to tell you about it right now, but to come, there's going to be some awesome devotions and mine won't be one of them, but some other people wrote some great ones that you get to read in the near future. But as I was writing this devotion, the premise behind it was a role of Jesus that I feel like often gets overlooked. Or maybe not even overlooked, because I think overlooked may be on the side of people who are teachers or preachers that maybe we don't talk enough about it to where maybe some people don't even know about this role of Jesus. Because if I were to sit down with you guys and I said, hey, what is the role of Jesus? Or what are, what were, what will be the roles of Jesus? I imagine that most of our answers would look similar to all the stuff I just got done talking about. He came to earth. He left heaven being fully God. He came to earth to be fully man, to sacrifice himself for us, ultimately buying our salvation and buying our entrance into the promise of salvation that we get to have eternal, we get to be in an eternal relationship with God the Father. Maybe you'll quote me John 3.16 because that's a great way to do it. For God so loved the world that he gave us one and only son, whosoever believes in him will not perish but have everlasting life. God sent his son Jesus to die for us. That was his role, was to bring about our salvation. And then his role is eternity, right? He gets to be in eternity. And one day we get to spend eternity with him. One day we get to see and rest in his glory. Or one day he gets to come down in his glory and bring us up to him and win our salvation once and for all. That's what I was trying to say. Once and for all of our faith. Our faith is in the fact that we are nothing, we deserve nothing. Our sin makes us in this place where we deserve nothing but eternal separation from God. But because Jesus came to earth, made himself man, and was killed on a cross, that his perfect sacrifice gives us eternal salvation. And I have to be honest with you, when I used to read this verse, the other thing I would have said is, hey, you know what Jesus gets to finally do? He had to endure the cross. He had to do all this stuff, but what does he finally get to do? He finally gets to sit at the right hand of God, the Father, who sits on the throne. He gets to rest, and he gets to wait to just get to meet his people. And I love how it says, for the joy that was set before him, that it's his joy to take on the cross. And therefore, it's his joy to be able to be in heaven, seated at the right hand of God, simply waiting to welcome his people into eternity. Waiting to welcome these people who he died for by name and by sin. But as I've done a little bit more research and as I've dived a little harder into Hebrews, what I realize is that is a very inaccurate reading of what it means that one of the joys set before him is to be seated at the right hand of the throne of God. As he is seated at the right hand, he's not being inactive. He's not sitting lazily by. He's not waiting expectantly to meet his people. Is that ultimately true? Yes. He can't wait to welcome you in. But while he is there, he right hand of God, is not twiddling his thumbs. It says that he is our high priest. Now, I know some of you guys are like, oh yeah, high priest, that's great. Other of you guys may have no idea what a high priest is. So the short version of what a high priest is, is he did a couple of things. He was this person who was appointed to be able to go into the presence of God and offer sacrifices for his people. Before Jesus, before the ultimate and perfect sacrifice, he would go and he would provide these sacrifices to God saying, Lord, let these sacrifices be enough so that my people can remain in your glory and in your presence. Well, we know and we just talked about that we don't do that anymore. And we don't do that anymore because we don't need to do that anymore. Because Jesus came down and was the perfect lamb that was sacrificed. That because of this perfect sacrifice, we don't need these small, insignificant sacrifices anymore because Jesus bought our salvation through his sacrifice for eternity. Well, the other thing, and what's basically completely linked to the first thing that a high priest does is he intercedes for his people. Basically, he is a go-between between his people and God. He was appointed to this place so that he could go into the presence of God, and while he's giving his sacrifices, he's also bringing about the pleas of his people. He's bringing to the Lord our sins, the things that we have told him, the ways that we have fallen short in the sight and in the eyes of God. And our high priest, and a high priest is to go in between us and God, praying to God and saying, Lord, as I sacrifice this, will you please forgive my people? Well, once again, what we know now, post-Jesus, is that since we have the Holy Spirit inside of us, when we say yes to Jesus, the Holy Spirit enters inside of us. What that means is we no longer have to have a go-between. We no longer have to go to this person on earth and say, hey, here are these things. Will you please take these things up to God? Because I could not be caught dead trying to talk to God because he's too holy. No, because we have the Holy Spirit within us, that means that we have the right and that we have the ability to go before the Father. But what gives us that right is Jesus. What gives us that right is not simply what happened in the past, not simply the fact that Jesus was sacrificed for us, but because Jesus is now sitting at the right hand of God. And what is he doing? He's our high priest. He's not currently living idly by. He's actively living as our high priest, actively pleading for us, is interceding for us, that he is always living to take our pleas to the Father, that his entire goal and his entire existence in heaven right now is to do everything he can to bring joy, to bring peace, to shower upon you hope and grace and mercies every single second of every single day. As we go to him, as we ask, Lord, please forgive me for this, or Lord, I just want to give this over to you. Jesus's joy is being able to accept that and to look to the father and say, Lord, that one's ours. And so he is forgiven. Lord, I died for that person right there, and therefore they are holy and they are blameless in your sight. Every single time we go to the Father, Jesus is interceding on our behalf saying, hey, you remember when I died? I died for that one. And as Hebrews 12, two says, it is his joy to do so. His joy is not simply his sacrifice in the past, but it is the current ability to be able to shower these mercies upon his people. Any person who is drawn near to his father. I love the way that Thomas Goodwin puts it when he says, Christ's own us, as he is able to comfort us, as he is able to relieve us, as he is able to comfort us, as he is able to shower grace and mercy upon us at every single turn, every second, every minute, every hour, every day. It is his joy, it is his comfort, it is his happiness, and his glory is ultimately greater and higher if his people would come to him for those things. And guess what? If you've drawn to him, if you have drawn near to God, if you have said yes to this faith, yes to this salvation that was authored by Jesus, then not only are you unlocking this eternal redemption, this eternal redemption that is brought to you by Jesus, but you are unlocking this ever-present redemption while you're here on earth. And that's good news. And the goal of this morning isn't simply for you to add to your checklist, oh, here's another role of Jesus. The goal is that it might impact us because I think that oftentimes when we look at Jesus, if I were to ask you to look at Jesus, then we would look at him as somebody of the past, somebody who was a human and died for us and died for our sins. And then, therefore, we look for him for the future. Because since he died for my sins in the past, that means my future is secure in eternity. And when we do that, and when we skip the middle part, when we skip the fact that Jesus is currently living and active as our high priest, consistently doing everything he can to draw us closer and closer to the Father, when we forget that step, I think that our faith starts to look about the same. When we begin to look at our faith, I think we look at it as an event of the past, that over here, we said yes to Jesus. We were bought and we were redeemed by his blood, and we've said yes to Jesus. And that is an incredible thing that we did in the past. And therefore, we get to go all the way over here to the end of our days and in eternity, we get to be with Jesus forevermore. We have this eternal, indescribable joy that we get to experience for the rest of our days. But when we forget the middle part of who Jesus is and what Jesus is doing, then we go from here and saying, you know what, for the rest of this time, I'm just gonna struggle through the rest of my life by myself. And then I'm gonna experience this incredible joy that I'm super excited about. And the problem is we fail to recognize that Jesus's current and active role is to make it to where that eternal joy is being realized in new and different ways every second of every day in our hearts while we are living on earth. That we don't have to wait for this joy. Jesus is just sitting at the right hand of God saying, why don't you just turn to me? I'll give you this joy right now. A quote that Nate has used a few times in his sermons that I'm gonna use again is by C.S. Lewis when he says, we are half-hearted creatures fooling about with drink and sex and ambition when infinite joy is offered to us. Like an ignorant child who wants to go on making mud pies in a slum because he cannot imagine what is meant by the offer of a holiday at sea. We are far too easily pleased. To put it a different way, imagine that you're living in poverty and you win the lottery one day. And this winning of the lottery is the amount of money that's not going to run dry. It's going to be there as long as you're using it. And so you have this huge celebration, this huge party. I did it. I won the lottery. I am victorious. And then you live the rest of your life out in the same poverty, never using any of your winnings to bring you the joy that it could bring you. And then the end of your day, as you start using it, and you're like, this is unbelievable. I love this. I love this so much. This is awesome. That's not a one-to-one comparison, but I mean, in the same way, when we simply see Jesus and celebrate Jesus as someone who saved us in the past, and we look forward to say, hey, at some point he's going to bring us joy in eternity, and that's what we're doing. When we forget that his current existence is literally consumed, he is wholly consumed with bringing us this indescribable joy more and more every single day. And we're just chilling with mud pies. And like, you know what, this is fine for now. I'll get the real joy later. Jesus just wants to grab you by the shoulders and shake you and say, what are you doing? I have this joy for you now. I would have called you later if I wanted you to experience the joy later. And when we shift our understanding of Jesus' role from one of the past and the future to one that is current and one that is active, then I believe that our faith begins to shift as well from a faith that is simply looking upon the past and looking upon the future into a faith that is current and active. And when we recognize and we understand that Jesus is wholly consumed right now with bringing about the greatest possible joy that you can experience on earth, not simply of the past, but of something right now, always. Bringing about new mercies and new joys and a new peace every single morning. That is his role. That is what he is consumed with right now. Why would we not want to consume ourselves with those joys? When we read Hebrews 4, 14, I want throne of God through Jesus. And we have a complete freedom to come exactly as we are because Jesus knows exactly what we went through because he experienced it on his time on earth as well. And the sins, the ugly stuff, the bad stuff that we don't want God to know about, the ugly stuff that is within our lives is the exact reason why we are welcome to come to Jesus. Those are the exact qualifications that allow us to get to come to Jesus, because Jesus only came to heal hurting people. He only came to redeem a fallen people. And it's his joy to redeem. It's his joy to be able to redeem you, to make you new, to make you whole, to shower upon you joy and grace and mercy and peace and forgiveness every single day. And so I want to return to Hebrews 12. We read Hebrews 12 too, and this time we're looking to Jesus, the founder and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy that is set before us. Today, may we not be a people who settle for mud pies. May we not be a people who have won the lottery but choose not to cash in on the joys that it produces. Let us run our races. Let us be consumed and let us step out into our faith, drawing closer and closer to Jesus as he is drawing us closer and deeper into the ever abounding peace, joy, and love of the Father. As we close out our service, we're gonna sing a song. And the song was placed here for a reason because the words are absolutely beautiful and do far more than I could ever do on this topic. But I just wanted to read a couple verses for you of the song, and if you will read with me before we sing it. The second verse actually goes, when Satan tempts me to despair and tells me of the guilt within, upward I look and see him there who made an end to all my sin. Because the sinless Savior died, my sinful soul is counted free. For God the just is satisfied to look on him and pardon me. The first verse says this, before the throne of God above, I have a strong and perfect plea. A great high priest whose name is love, who ever lives and pleads for me. My name is graven on his hands. My name is written on his heart. I know that while in heaven he stands, no tongue can bid me thence depart. Amen.
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Thank you for watching. ΒΆΒΆ Hi, I'm Leah, and I'm going to read Luke 2, 8-14. It is for Christ the Lord. Here is how you will know I am telling the truth. You will find a baby wrapped in strips of cloth and lying in a manger. Suddenly, a large group of angels from heaven also appeared. They were praising God. They said, May glory be given to God the pastor here. Dalton, this is the last time we let you lead worship on Christmas Eve. You're going to leave the music stand up there like that, pal. I'll tell right back. everybody. I'm glad that you're here. Merry Christmas to you. This is really, really fun. Christmas Eve service is my favorite service of the year. Every year, I love the energy. I love the singing. If you have children in the room today, do not worry. My sermon is intentionally short and simple. I would call it a message, okay? So it's going to be quick, and that's by design, because I think Christmas Eve, the singing together and all the things that go along with it should really steal the show in the service that we have together. And I'm thrilled that we get to be in person this year. Since last year, we had to do it over video. I was in Atlanta when we had our Christmas Eve service, watching it on the computer. So this is way better, and I'm very glad that everyone is here. As we've been going through December, working towards this Christmas Eve service, we've been doing a series called Renewed Wonder. And in each of the sermons in the series, we've been looking at the Christmas story through the lens, through the eyes of different people involved in the Christmas story. So we've looked at it through the eyes of the shepherds and through the eyes of Mary, and we've looked at it through the eyes of the angels and through Herod and through the wise men. And so today for the Christmas Eve message, I wanted us to take a minute to look week, I was reminded of a story, a poignant memory in my life. I was 21, 22 years old. This was in 2003. I think it was for my 21st birthday. My dad said, hey, for your birthday, I want to get you tickets to any sporting event you want to go to. What sporting event do you want to go to? And I'm like, this is fantastic. And at the time, my biggest interest was women's field hockey. And so we went, no, I'm just messing around. I said, I'd really love to go to a national championship football game. And he said, all right, we can make that happen. So we got tickets to go to the national championship football game. This particular year happened to be in Tempe, Arizona. It was the 2003 Tostitos Fiesta Bowl. So we got to go. We took my best friend and his dad. They came along and we went to the Grand Canyon, made a whole weekend out of it. I think the Cheesecake Factory was involved, so you know it was fancy. And then we go to the game. And the game was the game between Miami and Ohio State that went into double overtime. And it's one of the best national championship games ever. And I got to be there. And there was some really, really cool moments during this game. And there was several moments, in fact, and I didn't have a dog in the fight. I don't like Miami. I don't like Ohio State. I don't care. I'm just there for fun. But there were several moments where each fan base thought their team had won the game and were national champions forever, right? And so that crowd goes nuts. And then they find out it was a pass interference, or it gets called back, or that was a fumble, or he actually landed out of bounds, or whatever it was. And then they kind of get deflated. And then a few minutes later, Ohio State thinks they win. And then they find out, no, you didn't. They broke the rules there too. And so it just kept going back and forth into double overtime. And I'm sitting there and I wish I could remember. I tried for the life of me to remember, but I can't remember the specific moment. I can't remember what happened. But something incredible happened, unbelievable. And the whole stadium's going nuts. And I'm thinking to myself, I can't believe I get to be here to see this. This is so cool. And I turn around to kind of share this moment with my dad. My dad had to sit behind us. I don't like to sit on the same row as him. So he had to sit behind us. And I turned around to kind of share this moment with my dad. And you would have thought that there was no one else in the stadium but me, because he was staring right at me, grinning from ear to ear. And it was like in that moment that there was no one else in the stadium. And it dawned on me in real time, his joy is in watching me enjoy his gift. I'm thrilled that all of this is happening and he's thrilled that he's the reason that I'm there while it's happening. And to turn around and see my dad grinning from ear to ear, finding his greatest joy in my enjoyment of his gift, to me is a good picture of how God the Father must have felt when he gave us his good and perfect gift. The book of James tells us that God the Father gives good and perfect gifts from above. And then Matthew tells us that if our earthly fathers know how to give us good gifts, how much better does our heavenly Father know how to give good gifts? And Jesus, we are told, is the good and perfect gift. We hear it over and over in this season that Jesus is the greatest gift of all. And so what must it have been like to be God the Father watching Simeon in the temple experience the joy of meeting the Messiah and seeing Mary and Joseph experience the joy of having the Messiah and bringing life to him and seeing the shepherds respond to the angels and going over to the manger and this progressive revelation of who this Jesus is and what he came to do and watching his creation, who he loves so much, enjoy the gift that he gave to them so perfectly. What must his joy have been like? Well, it had to be something like what I turned around and saw on my dad's face at that football game. And I think it's important to note at Christmas that if we want to see it through the eyes of God, that his greatest joy is in our enjoyment of his gift. God's greatest joy is at our delight in the good things that he places in our life. It's in, pointedly, it's in our delight in his son, Jesus. So as we sing, God delights in these songs. As we praise, I'm going to stop talking in a minute. We're going to do Oh Holy Night. It's my favorite song ever. I love it and I can't wait to sing it. And then we're going to do Silent Night. We're going to do the candles. And if that moves us to joy, if we feel any tinge of delight there at God the Father and his gifts in our life, then he is taking enjoyment in that as well. He is delighting in us as we delight in him. His greatest joy is to watch you enjoy the gifts that he's given you. And as I was thinking about this, I was also thinking about this idea that Jesus is the greatest gift ever. And I started wondering, well, why is that the case? If someone were to ask me, why is Jesus the greatest gift, how would I explain it? And I think that I would explain it like this, that Jesus is the greatest gift because he gives us everything that we want and need before we even realize that we want and need it. He provides for us everything that we want and need before we even realize that we want and need it. 2,000 years before any of us existed, he died on the cross for our sins before any of us ever knew that our sins would require a death. He does things for us without us even knowing his goodness, without us even having a full revelation of what he's actually doing in our lives. And to know Jesus and to accept the gift of Jesus is to see him get better and better and to have this kind of progressive revelation at how good Jesus actually is and how perfect of a gift he actually was. I think it kind of works like this check that I received a couple Christmases back. A few Christmases ago, it was in December and I think there was a men's Bible study or something. And then afterwards, one of the guys handed me a card, an envelope with a card inside of it, which is typical for people to do for their pastor. If you're here and you haven't done that for your pastor. But that happens from time to time, right? And so he hands me a card. I'm like, okay, great, thanks. And I go back to my office. And then at some point that morning, I open it up and there's a nice message. Merry Christmas to you and your family and blah, blah, blah. And all the stuff that you say. And then there's a check. And I'm like, this is great. They didn't have to write us a check. That's too, too kind. So I open it up. And there's a two and some zeros. And I'm like, they gave us a check for $200? That's too much. I mean, I'm going to accept it, but that's too much. And then I look and I'm like, oh, yo, there's more zeros here. Oh, oh, this is a check for $20,000 to the church. That's the part of the story I don't like. I wish it was for me. But I'm like, oh my gosh, this is a check for 20 grand. This isn't $200. The longer I looked at it, the better it got. That's how Jesus is. The longer we look at him, the longer we experience him, the more we learn about him, the more layers we peel off, the better he gets. Because he provides for us everything that we want and need before we even realize that's what he's doing. Here's how that works. If I could talk to you, we could just sit down and I could say, hey, what do you want out of life? We would all have different answers and say different things and have different ways of phrasing the same small group of ideas, right? If I could sit with someone who's just starting out their career and say, hey, what do you want in life? You would probably tell me there's other, you want family, you want wealth, you want whatever, but you would probably at some point or another land at success. I'd like to be successful. And if you really think about that, why do you want to be successful? Well, if you get to the heart of the matter, you probably want to be successful. I know that this is true for me because I want to prove myself. Because you want to accomplish and you want to perform and you want to be validated and you want to move up and you want to get to the end of your career and the end of your life and look back and be proud of who you are and what you did. You want your career and the people around you to say, you're enough, you're good, you did it. When we chase success, when we prioritize success, if we're being really honest with ourself, a root of that is we just, we want people to tell us we're good enough. And do you know that Jesus tells you over and over again in scripture and in worship and in circumstances that you're enough, that he loves you. And he says, hey, you don't have to perform for me. You don't have to do anything for me. You don't have to close a sale for me. You don't have to be excellent for me. You don't have to overcome for me. You don't have to do anything at all. I love you. You're enough. You can quit trying so hard. And when we learn to rest easy in that, we have what we've wanted all along, which is this validation for the creator of the universe to tell us that we're enough. Maybe we want wealth. Maybe we just want a little bit more money. I don't know what your idea of wealth is. We have different ideas of it. I'm not saying that necessarily you want a level of wealth where you have a yacht off of Fiji. I mean, maybe you do. Maybe that's your goal, and that's great. But maybe you just want enough to do whatever it is you want to do. But if one of the things we want from life is wealth, you know what's really behind that desire is a desire for a sense of security and safety, and I'm going to be okay. There's no greater security than Jesus. There's no greater security than resting easy in the sovereignty of God and knowing that Jesus has paid the price for your sins and there is nothing that can happen to you that he does not ordain. There's no greater security than Christ. Maybe we want a good marriage. We want to be loved. I just want to have a good family. Do you know that the thing that makes a marriage the healthiest is in a marriage when you are fully seen and fully known? All your nooks and crannies, all the bad parts, all the good parts, you are fully seen and exposed to your partner and yet still fully loved. That's what good marriage is. Do you know who sees you fully? Everything about you more than any human can ever see? Christ. He knows you deeply and he loves you. That validating love is found in him. You could give me anything that you wanted out of life and I promise you I could walk you through and show you that's actually found in Jesus. You may not realize that yet, but that's actually found in Jesus. So the longer we gaze at Jesus, the more zeros show up on that check and the better we realize he is. That's what we want. What about the things that we need that we may not realize just yet? I believe that we were created, that there is a longing in our souls for eternity. We're told that God wrote eternity on our hearts. We know that this life, there is something that tells us as we go through life and we see all the things we see, that this life isn't all that there is. We know that intuitively in our souls and our guts. We know it. And we yearn for eternity. And Jesus secures us that eternity. In our guts we know that we were created. And in our souls we long for harmony with this creator God. It's a thing that's designed into each one of us to long for harmony with our creator God, and Jesus provides that harmony. Our souls, and we know this now, and the stress and the strife of 2020 and 2021, our souls long for rest. They need it. We need a place to lay down. Jesus won us that rest with his death. The more we gaze at Jesus, the better he gets. The more we understand about Jesus, the more joy we can take in the gift that we received. So as we look to see Christmas through the eyes of the Father, let us acknowledge that his joy is found in our enjoyment of his good and perfect gift. And his good and perfect gift is good and perfect because it provides for us, Jesus provides for us, everything we could ever possibly want or need even before we know we want or need it. So my invitation to you at Christmas and my prayer for you is to simply accept this gift that God offers. If you've never accepted this gift, if you've never accepted Jesus, I pray that this is the season that you'll do that. If you have accepted Christ, I pray that in this season you will have a progressive revelation and just keep seeing more and more zeros and understand more and more about who Jesus is and what he does and how he provides for you all the things that you want or need, even before you know you want or need them. And in that way, let's take joy in the gift that the Father has given us this Christmas. I'm going to pray, and we're going to sing O Holy Night together. Father, thanks so much for who you are, for how you love us, for how good you are to us. Thank you for your good and perfect gift. Thank you for Jesus. God, if there are people here who don't know you, I pray that they would want to. God, if there are people here who have maybe held you at arm's length for whatever reason, I pray that you would help us see that you really are what we've been clawing for this whole time. God, let us receive you into our lives more and more. Let us gaze at your son more and more. Let us be overwhelmed by the layers of goodness that are revealed in his presence. And this Christmas, God, let us find joy in your good gifts so that you might delight in us. It's in your son's name we pray. Amen.
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Thank you. Good morning, Grace. My name is Kay, and I've been a partner with Grace. Our reading today is Matthew 2, verses 1 through 6. Now after Jesus was born in Bethlehem of Judea, in the days of Herod the king, behold, wise men from the east came to Jerusalem, saying, Where is he who was born king of the Jews? For we saw his star when it rose. Verse 1. the chief priests and scribes of the people. He inquired of them where the Christ was to be born. They told him, in Bethlehem of Judea, for so it is written by the prophet, and you, O Bethlehem, in the land of Judah, are by no means least among the rulers of Judah, for from you shall come a ruler who will shepherd my people Israel. you're like, what in the world is going on? Why are all these people in their pajamas? Do they do this every week? Yeah, we do. We like it. We're the pajama church. And this is just how we do church every week. But for real, I had a change of clothes next door to put on so I could look like my normal classy self when I got up here to preach. But as I was thinking about it this morning, I thought, how many pastors do I know who get to claim and say that they preached a whole sermon in their pajamas and their slippies? So none that I know of. So I wanted to, when I'm 70, I want to be able to say that I did it. So off we go together as we do our Christmas series called Renewed Wonder, where in the series we are making an effort to see Christmas through the eyes of children again. That's why we're having a big fun festive Sunday today, and we've had a theme kind of every week. And then within the sermons, we have been looking at the story of Christmas through the eyes of different people involved in the Christmas story. In the first week, we looked at Christmas through the eyes of the shepherds, and then last week, we saw Christmas through the eyes of Mary. This week, I want to look at Christmas through the eyes of Herod and the eyes of the wise men and see what we can learn from those perspectives. Now, the background that Kay just gave us with the reading, which best reading so far, Kay, very well done, thank you. The background that she gave us with that was the wise men are out east. We don't know where from. It could be, a lot of guesses are modern day, Iran, Iraq, but it could be as far over as like Kazakhstan or Mongolia or China or wherever. But they were from the east. They had been traveling for as many as two years following the star over Bethlehem, right? And it's worth pointing out, this is just an aside, but when we go through scripture and we study God's word, we see that God's focus often is on Israel. And if we're not paying attention, it can seem as if that's his only focus, that God's only speaking to Israel and he's only speaking to Hebrew people throughout the story of the Bible until Jesus comes on the scene and then they go out into all the world. But the reality is that the Magi, the wise men who were from out east, who had no association whatsoever with Israel or Jewish customs, that somehow God spoke to them. Somehow they acknowledged that voice as the voice of God. And somehow they were able to walk in obedience to God and come and adequately celebrate the Savior as an infant or perhaps as a toddler. Somehow God was able to communicate with them, which I think is missed. We're just like, oh yeah, the wise men knew. But it's important for us to understand that God's redemptive focus and God's focus on people is always bigger than just Israel, than just his church. It's always focused on the whole world. And it's worth pointing out when people ask that question, what about someone who grows up in a cultural context where they never, ever, ever hear about Jesus or have any exposure to Christian religion at all, what happens to them in eternity? Well, I know that God is a good and just and fair God, and I know that it would be wise to look at the story of the magi, of the wise men, and trust that if God can communicate then and they can respond then, then that kind of communication and that kind of response can still happen today and has happened throughout all of time. That's an aside, but I think it's an important thing to acknowledge about the wise men. We often think that there were three wise men. There were not necessarily three. That's just cultural or traditional because there was three gifts, but there could have been two, there could have been 20, and they probably had a large caravan that was with them. And they most likely, I know this is gonna crush some of your souls, were not at the nativity scene. Most of your nativity scenes are probably wrong. Now they could have been, they could have started two years in advance and gotten there right then, or it could have been two years later, but they journeyed for a long time to come see Jesus. When they get there, they're looking for Jesus. They're following the star of Bethlehem. They're following that, and they're kind of coming across Asia there, and they get into Israel, and they start looking for Jesus. And, you know, the star is just in the sky. So now there's a lot of houses here, and where exactly is he? They don't know. But as they're going, they think, we're going to go see Herod. We're going to go see Herod the king, and he's going to tell us where this Jesus person is. Surely, if anybody knows, it'll be Herod, and it'll be his court. So let's go figure this out. So they go to Herod, and they're like, hey, the Messiah was born. This is a loose translation of the Gospels. Hey, the Messiah was born. He's here. He's going to be king of kings and Lord of lords. His name is going to be Jesus. Where is he? Surely you know. And Herod is like, oh, shoot. This guy, this Jesus guy wants to be the king. So what do we do? So he talks with his advisors and he comes back out to the wise men and he's like, you know what? I feel the exact same way. I'm looking for him too. I would love to fall on my feet and worship this new baby Messiah, Jesus. That sounds great. I've actually been trying to do that for a while. So when you guys find him, if you could, if you could share your location and just tell us exactly where you are, the minute you see him, we're going to rush over there and we're going to worship him too. But he was being duplicitous. We see the angel communicate with Joseph, the father of Jesus, subsequent to this meeting. And in what the angel says, we see the true intention of Herod and his true response to Christ and the Christmas story. We find it in Luke chapter 2, verses 13 through 15. This is what the angel says to Joseph. So in this story, we see the true intention of Herod. He did not have any interest in worshiping Jesus. He had every interest in killing Jesus. And because of the news of the birth of this Messiah, Herod issued the most evil of edicts, that every two-year-old boy in the kingdom of Israel or Judea was to be put to death by the sword, and he sent his soldiers out to do that. I have a son who's seven months old, and I cannot imagine the evil involved in actually following through with Herod's orders. Now, in our case, our son is enormous. So if we told the soldiers he's three, they'd be like, yeah, that checks out. So we'd be good. But for the rest of the toddlers, it's devastating. This is his plan. This is what he wants to do. And so the angels warn Joseph and say, take Mary and take your son Jesus and get out of here. You got to get out of here, man. You got to go down to Egypt, which last week we learned, and I think it's helpful to pause on these kinds of things. Last week we saw that Jesus very likely lost his earthly father because Joseph disappears from the narrative. So it's very likely that Jesus, as an adolescent boy, knew what it was to lose a parent. And then at some point, Jesus gets a stepdad and has stepbrothers and sisters and lives in a blended home. And I think that's good for those of us who have that experience to know that Jesus had that experience too. And this week, what we see is that Jesus was also an immigrant seeking asylum for persecution from his home country. He lived as an immigrant for two years and was accepted in Egypt, and I think that that's important for us to at least acknowledge about our Savior. So they flee and they go down there because Herod is trying to kill baby Jesus. Now, why does he do this? Well, we see it in Herod's response. I would summarize Herod's response to the news of Christmas that Jesus is coming like this. Oh no, Jesus is coming. He's going to take my stuff. That was his response. Oh no, Jesus is coming and he wants to take my things. It's said about this guy that he is gonna sit on the throne of David. I sit on the throne of David. It's said that he is gonna be the king of kings. I'm the king, I don't want another king. Really, what Herod is butting up against is the fact that if Jesus is going to be who he wants to be, then Herod can't be who he thinks he wants to be. You understand? If Jesus is going to do what he says he's going to do, then Herod cannot do what he thinks he wants to do. And so Herod's response to Jesus is, oh no, Jesus is coming. He's going to take my stuff. He's going to make it so that I can't be the king. He's going to make it so I can't have those feasts with the pigs and the apples in their mouth. That's my favorite part of being the king. We all know that's part of the deal, right? Like I can't do that stuff anymore. I'm not going to be in charge anymore. I'm not going to have all the trappings of life. When Jesus shows up, I'm going to have to give up my life and give up who I want to be so that he can be who he needs to be. And I don't want to do that. So I'm going to keep Jesus from taking my stuff. And I think it's important for us during the Christmas season to acknowledge this perspective of Herod. Because I think so many of us have that perspective as well. Maybe not all the way, maybe in seasons, maybe just in categories, but I think that we've probably all responded to the news of Jesus or to the plans of Jesus, similarly to Herod. Oh no, Jesus is coming. He's gonna to take my stuff. For Jesus to be in my life, who he wants to be, I can't be what I want to be. And so we respond to the news of Christ as Herod did. I've seen this firsthand, over and over again, not in my life, but in the life of others as I've ministered. I've seen this firsthand. I'm just kidding. I do it all the time too. But in teenagers, I used to be a student pastor and I would talk with kids who believed. You ask them, is Jesus the son of God? Yes. Did he die on the cross for your sins? Yes. Is he your ticket? Did he buy your ticket into heaven? Did he pay for that ticket with his life? Yes, he did. And he covers over my sin and I get it and I believe. All right, so let's, do you want to pray to receive Christ? Do you want to claim Christianity now? No, not yet. Why not, man? Well, I'm in high school. I'm still young. I've got some fun to be had. I've got some things I like to do. I'll get serious about Jesus later. Oh, okay. So like in college? That would be ridiculous. I've got to live life in college, right? I've got things that I want to do in college. I've got a person I want to be in college. So I'll take Jesus seriously when I graduate. And then you graduate. You ready to take Jesus seriously now? Is this the threshold in your life where you want to prioritize spiritual things? Well, I mean, I'm making a couple dollars. I'm in my 20s. I need to experience life a little bit. Not quite ready to settle down. Let me just kind of search these things out. And then maybe when I get married, settle down, have kids, then I'll embrace Christ. Then I'll embrace church. Then I'll embrace spiritual help. And so you do that and you put them off and you keep them at arm's reach because if I invite Jesus into my life now, I'm going to have to give up things that I don't want to give up. I'm going to have to stop doing stuff that I like to do. And I'm going to have to start doing stuff that I don't want to do. So let's just chill out. And down the road, when that looks a little easier, then I'll invite Jesus in to take my stuff and to reprioritize my life. But not yet, because I got a good thing going and I don't really want him to mess with it. So then you have kids and this is when we're going to be serious about our spiritual health. Except when you have kids, what you realize is that before that day, you thought you understood what tired was and now you understand what tired really is. So when Sunday morning rolls around, you don't really want to get everybody ready and come to church. You kind of just want to lay there. When small group comes around, do I really want to deal with childcare and all that stuff? No. And so then we don't prioritize like we said we would. And then we kick the can down the road a little bit further. And then it's like, well, when I retire, I've got a good thing going. I'm making a lot of money. I'm putting my money where I want it to be. I don't want Jesus to come into my life and rearrange my finances and annoy me with the tithing thing and say that I have to start giving money here and there. And I'm going to finish up these last five, 10 years of my career. I don't need Jesus coming into my life telling me to move to Zimbabwe and give everything away. I'm not gonna do that. So let's just retire and then, and then you retire and you wanna experience a little bit and then, and then, and then. And in big ways and in little ways, we respond to Christ like Herod. Oh no, he's coming. He wants to take my stuff. He wants to change who I am. For him to be who he needs to be, I have to let go of who I want to be, and I'm not ready to do that. Herod was not ready to do that yet, and so we keep him at arm's length. I saw someone this week write, and I don't know who, I'm very slowly going through multiple books and listening to different things, and stuff gets sent to me, so sorry to whichever smart Christian author said this that I cannot attribute it to, but I read this week that a lot of us like to invite Jesus into our life as Savior, but not as Lord. You can save me. I'm interested in heaven. That sounds great, but I've got a good thing going. So you can be my Savior, but you can't yet be my Lord, because for you to really come into my life and be who you want to be, I have to change everything about who I am or allow you to do that, and I'm not good with it. So Herod's response is to keep Jesus at arm's length because he's not yet ready to give up his stuff. And I think we can relate to this response, which makes the response of the wise men all the more poignant and all the more encouraging and maybe convicting because they're told somehow, and the Bible doesn't record it. It's lost in the fog of history. They're told somehow, hey guys, you should follow this star because when you get there, this promised Messiah is going to be there and you're going to have the chance to worship him in person. And so they do, and they pack up all their stuff. And based on the timeline, based on Herod's desire to kill all the children, all the males under the age of two, wherever they came from was as much as a two-year journey away from Israel. And again, we don't know how many there were, but we do know that those men and whatever women were with them, those people who came, they came at great cost to themselves. If it's two years to get there, maybe they figured out a better way to get back, but it's at least a year back, right? They're gone for three or four years before they can get back to their businesses, before they can get back to their communities, before they can get back to their people, their children and their grandchildren if they didn't come with them. They left at great cost when they heard about Jesus. They let go of everything and they took their stuff and they went to worship Jesus. That was their response. And at the end of this journey, they get there, they see the star and they know they're in the right spot. And this is their response when they finally see Jesus in Matthew chapter two, verses 10 and 11. When they saw the star, they rejoiced exceedingly with great joy. And going into the house, they saw the child with Mary, his mother, and they fell down and worshipped him. Then, opening their treasures, they offered him gifts, gold and frankincense and myrrh. Their response when they heard that Jesus was coming was to say, oh, Jesus is coming. Here, take my stuff. I don't want it anymore. I don't need it. Oh, Jesus is coming. Let me radically reprioritize what I thought I was going to do for the next three years of my life. Let me take these things, this gold, this frankincense, and myrrh, the stuff that I have for special occasions, and let me take it to him. The stuff that I could likely leave to my children as an inheritance instead of that legacy, let me go lay it down at the foot of Jesus. Let me disrupt my whole life. Let me let go of who I thought I was going to be for this next period of time and let Jesus define what I'm going to be because I'm seeking him. I'm not a businessman or a magi or whatever I am. I'm a pilgrim going to see Jesus. Their response was, oh, Jesus is coming. Here, take my stuff. You can have it. I want you. And they fall on their feet. They fall on their knees and they worship him. And they praise him. And they give him gifts. And we don't really need to know the significance of gold, frankincense, and myrrh beyond the fact that they were very expensive. They offered their best to Christ. And to me, those two responses stand in stark opposition of one another. For Herod to hear that Jesus was there and immediately think about what he might have to give up. And for the wise men to hear that Jesus was coming and to immediately give up everything. So, I think it's important to point out that we should be like the wise men, not like Herod. That is the incredibly sophisticated point that I have been driving to in this sermon. That's why you guys pay me all the money you do, so that you can write down sentences like that on Sunday. And that really is the point. That as we consider those two responses, I think we would do well to identify and admit where we're like Herod. Maybe you're here and you're not yet a Christian. And it's because of that. It's because you're not yet sure you want Jesus to radically reorganize your priorities. You're not quite sure you want to start doing some things and stop doing other things. Or maybe you are a believer, but you've led him into your life as Savior, but in pockets as Lord. And we can all learn from the wise men that when Jesus shows up, we should just give him everything. But the more I thought about this and dug into these characters, I actually stumbled into a thought that I really liked and wanted to share with you. I'm nerdy about history. I like it. I listen to podcasts about history, like six-hour episodes about the Persian Empire. I'm all in, you know? I love this stuff. And so I was thinking about Herod from a geopolitical perspective of who he actually was on the world stage. And the answer is he wasn't a very big deal at all. Okay. And when he sat on the throne of Judea, it was a far flung province of the Roman empire. Herod wasn't really in charge there. Pilate was. Pilate was the Roman governor. He had been installed by the Roman emperor as the governor of this far-flung province, and it wasn't even a glamorous post. It would be the modern day equivalent to finding out that you got to be a diplomat for the United States of America and then learning that your assignment was Trinidad and Tobago. It's like, well, the weather's nice, but I don't think I'm a big player on the political scene. We're not making big world, we're not getting invited to the G8 summit over here. So you just take it for what it's worth. And then under Pilate sits Herod on the throne of Judea. And he has no real authority. He can't declare war. He can't do that. Pilate has to do that. He can't even kill anybody in his own territory. What a bummer as a king. You'd think the one thing you're allowed to do as a king is kill who you want. And Pilate's like, nope, you can't execute who you want. I have to approve that too. He's got a rubber stamp there. And then within his own culture, his voice isn't even the weightiest. Within his own Jewish culture, it's the Sanhedrin that carry far more weight than he do. Kind of the Jewish Senate, the Jewish ruling body compiled of religious leaders from different, what we would think of as denominations or parties. They carried far more weight in Israel than Herod did. And I'm convinced, I mean, think about it for real. Say you're in heaven, somehow or another in the pages that are lost, Herod has a change of heart and Herod accepts Christ as his savior and he's in heaven too. And you just run into this guy, you know, you're doing, you're golfing. You're doing whatever you do in heaven, which golf will be there. And you get paired up with him. You're like, okay, great. And you're like, well, what did you do in your past life? And he's like, well, I was the king. You're like, oh, that's cool. Where are you the king of? You're like, Judea. Oh, when they were independent before like the Babylonians and the Syrians and the Romans got in there. No, no, no. Rome was our daddy, essentially. You'd be like, oh, well, cool. I was an accountant, so let's just maybe focus on golf. Nobody cares. Nobody cares about Herod's little fiefdom. It doesn't matter. The reality is, Herod was a symbolic king who sat on an empty throne. Herod was a symbolic king sitting on an empty, meaningless throne. It didn't even matter. The life that he was trying to protect was dumb. Who cares? You're the king of Judea. You're not even a king. You're not even in control. Your own people don't even look to you. They look to the Sanhedrin. You are a symbolic figurehead king sitting on an empty throne, hollow of any import or authority at all. And I don't want to press this part too hard because I'm not here to denigrate anybody this morning. But is it possible that as we keep Jesus at arm's length, because I've got a good thing going here, Jesus, I don't want you to take my stuff. And for Jesus, for you to be who you want to be in my life, I can't be who I want to be. Is it possible that as we keep him at arm's length, that all we're really doing is being impotent, empty kings and queens sitting on meaningless thrones, just like Herod. What are we protecting that's so important? What plans do we have that are so good? What secret things do we enjoy that are so worth holding Jesus and all of his goodness at arm's length? If you could look at Herod through the lens of history and show him everything that Jesus actually did and what he actually came for, wouldn't you want to just hit him upside the head and go, what are you doing, man? What are you doing? I wonder if we'll get to eternity and feel that same way. If we could come to ourselves in December of 2021 and look at the ways at which we hold Jesus at arm's length and try to protect our kingdom. I wonder, and maybe we wouldn't, but I wonder, would you want to slap yourself upside the head and go, what are you doing? What are you holding on to that's so important? What are you not willing to give up that's so valuable? Like I said, I won't belabor it, but I wonder if we are kings and queens sitting on empty thrones, protecting nothing. And then I thought, well, what does Jesus want to take from Herod? What is he protecting? And the answer is nothing. He doesn't want his kingdom. Jesus didn't come to sit on the throne of Judea and that's it. Jesus came to be the king of kings and Lord of lords. He came to sit on the throne of the universe. He's not after Herod's kingdom. Small potatoes is a disservice to the term small potatoes. It doesn't matter to him at all. And so I thought, what did Jesus come for? Because he doesn't want your stuff either. That's not why he came. Jesus doesn't want your stuff. He wants you. He didn't come for your things. He didn't come for your 401k. He didn't come for your priorities. He came for you. He showed up at Christmas. He lived a perfect life. He died a perfect death. He defeated death. We get to celebrate that at Easter. And he did every bit of that for you. He came to get you. He didn't come to get your stuff. And if he wants to take your stuff, he's going to replace it with something so much better than what you lost. So as we think about Christmas, let us remember Jesus came. Yeah, he's here. And sometimes we want to hold him at arm's length like Herod did because we're afraid that he might rearrange our life in ways that make us uncomfortable. But let's be clear, he didn't come for your stuff. He came to get you. That's the whole reason that he's here is to come and get you and take you into heaven for all of eternity with his father. It's the whole reason that you were created. And the only reason that you're still here is to take as many people with you on the way as you go. And when we think about this, the reality of who Herod was and that he sat on an empty throne and the fact that Jesus really didn't come for his stuff, he came for him. He didn't come for your stuff, he came for you. And then we again compare that to the response of the wise men. To me, it becomes so much more pointed and poignant when we realize that surrendering our stuff symbolizes our submission to the Savior. Why did the wise men offer him gifts? Why is there a scriptural teaching to live our life as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God, to pour ourselves out like a drink offering, to give him everything? Why did Jesus say to the rich man, you have to sell all your things and then you can follow me? Why do we have a Christian practice of tithing and giving and being generous people? Why do we do those things? Why is that kind of generosity and that kind of sacrifice laced throughout the teachings of scripture, both with Christ and with his followers. Why is that? It's not because Jesus needs all that stuff. It's because when we surrender our things, it symbolizes submission to the Savior. Yes, I accept you as Savior, but when I surrender everything in my life and say that it's yours, I now accept you as Lord. The response of the wise men wasn't to simply offer gifts. It wasn't to simply journey. It was to say, we are yours. We're here. We're surrendered and we're submitted. And as we, as a people, reflect on God's gift to us and the Jesus that shows up in our lives and often, as we talked about last week, simply happens to us, let us respond like the wise men. Let us surrender our life, who we want to be, our plans that we have, the priorities that we hold, the things that we want to do or not want to do. Let us surrender our stuff as a symbol of our submission to our Savior who has come to get us. This is my predominant thought as I go through this series. And it has been my prayer for you this week as I've prayed for the sermon and prayed for grace that we would be more like the wise men than we are here. That we would quit holding Jesus at arm's length and that we would choose instead to surrender our things as a knowing and willing symbol that we are submitted to Christ. Not just as our Savior, but as our Lord. Let's pray. Father, we love you and are grateful for you. Thank you for your son. God, I pray that we, I pray that we would trust that you've just got a better plan, God. Whatever it is that we want, whatever it is that we're holding on to, whatever it is that we're protecting, whatever it is we think we're going for, whatever it is we're reaching for that we think is going to make us happy or bring us joy or bring us fulfillment, whatever that is, if it's not you, would you simply give us the faith to trust that it's something better if we would simply reach for you instead? If we walked in this morning responding to you as Herod does and did, keeping you at arm's length because we're afraid of what you might ask of us, we're afraid of what you might change in us or about us. God, would you give us the faith of the wise men to say, here, take it all, I'm yours. And have the courage to let you reprioritize and rearrange who we are and what we're about. God, thank you for Christmas. Thank you for this place. Thank you for the chance to worship together. God, I pray that you would hear our praise as we continue to do that. In Jesus' name, amen.
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